[-] urfriendjen@lemmy.ca 9 points 3 months ago

the move was posted on one of the other snark subs, so we’re findable

[-] urfriendjen@lemmy.ca 11 points 3 months ago

This “become a real estate investor” wankery fills me with so much rage. I don’t know who is more of a pox on society, influencers or these airbnb landlords driving up the price of rent and property values, increasing the need for affordable housing, feeding sprawl and development of green space and developers building in the green belt. I tried to have a convo with one once about how problematic airbnb was and the greed of them was so compulsive it was disgusting. It’s a sickness, really.

Also, this video is so MLM’y — Scotty is totally giving me Tom Cruise in Magnolia vibes in this clip. He’s looks like he’s about to sprout a greasy little pony tail.

[-] urfriendjen@lemmy.ca 10 points 3 months ago

And if I you zoom in you can see glitches and a white edge line down the right side of her leg

[-] urfriendjen@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 months ago

The one on the left reminds me of looking into one of those wonky funhouse mirrors. Her legs don’t even look real

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A couple of us were talking about the manipulation tactic of oversharing the other day. This piece is a couple of years old but what I find interesting is their awareness of the tendency for their position to create parasocial relationships, and how to tread the line. There’s a basic human decency there that doesn’t exist for TBP.

[-] urfriendjen@lemmy.ca 20 points 3 months ago

You bet! And ya I feel the same. There’s a simplicity to Lemmy life that I could really get used to

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Hello new Lemmy friends!

Word on the street tells us our community is regularly making it the all page. While this is very cool news to hear, we can see how the sudden emergence of our posts in your feed might feel jarring and probably raises some questions. And also how, without knowing the backstory, our community might appear less than virtuous, so here’s a very brief introduction which hopefully will clear a few things up.

The woman we’re discussing is a body positive influencer and media personality who has gained fame and wealth by lying, manipulating, exploiting her children for content, plagiarizing BIPOC creators and blaming her BIPOC content editor for it (thereby ruining her career), among other things. Her fraudulent behavior is no different (I’d argue worse) from the likes of Jay Shetty (google him if you don’t know who he is or what he did). She’s the latest in a long line of grifting influencers who are abusing their power, taking advantage of their position and exploiting their followers. The difference is that she’s Canadian. Our laws around social media and advertising aren’t as clear (and where they are she’s disobeyed them), add to that, our mainstream media has protected her from those who’ve tried to expose her grift and silenced/intimidated anyone who’s tried to speak out.

Our Reddit sub was taken down due to reports of copyright infringement, which is unfounded and categorically untrue as no one ever tried to steal her work and pass it off as their own. The mods have made an appeal. While at first glance it may seem like we’re just “shitting on her” the sub has been more devoted to investigation and posting proof of her lies than just bitching for the sake of bitching. The reality is that she’s hurt, manipulated and let down a lot of people. She stole intellectual property and employment, caused mental distress and has repeatedly told lies to boost engagement and profit off her audience, so people are understandably upset that their voices are being silenced.

We’re grateful to have been welcomed so kindly by so many of you, and to those sticking around to watch the drama unfold, we’re glad to have you!

[-] urfriendjen@lemmy.ca 13 points 3 months ago

Healthy is up for debate, I’m sure, but yep they 100% don't fully dissolve. I had my tear troughs (under eyes) done years ago and the filler didn’t break down so my body kind of created a protective barrier around it so after a couple of years there was a roll that sort of bunched up when I smiled. It wasn’t hideous, just looked like I had puffy eyes but still not a cute look. Went to three different clinics before someone identified it and told me it needed to be dissolved. All the others wanted to put more in and claimed there was NO WAY it could still be in there, even after I showed them the medical journals telling them they were wrong.

I think it’s only natural to want to slow the aging process (in moderation) but having the right injector is everything because a lot of them are just pushers trying to give a specific look because it’s trendy, or doing whatever their clients want whether it suits their face or not. PS, as a nurse you can get ”qualified” in filler in 4-6 weeks which is not nearly enough IMO. Yet another way corporations get away with turning women into collateral damage bc they need faces to inject their product into. And yes men and non binary ppl get filler too but the vast majority of beauty pressure around aging is placed on women.

But I digress. With her ladyship, this level of obsession with staying young can be an indication of failure to fully individuate or actualize as an adult human. Which is sad but understandable for someone who had kids so young. I really saw that in the video of her crying about not getting complimented on her jaw anymore and in the way she’s so psychoemotionally attached to the SI gig. Still, it’s the hypocrisy I find so troubling. It kinda seems like she stumbled on (ahem stole) a way to get attention that’s made her “famous” and she’s going to keep milking the body pos cow because it gets her airtime, no matter who she hurts in the process.

[-] urfriendjen@lemmy.ca 16 points 3 months ago

…just a wee add-on to MoonChild’s to explain why you’re seeing us all of a sudden…Originally there was a 6000+ strong sub dedicated to snark, analysis and investigation of S, aka TPB, aka birdy etc. S didn’t like this and in addition to the cease and desist she also managed to have the sub shut down. After a couple of days of trying to start new subs and getting banned repeatedly the mods came here.

Janette Ewan is wonderful. Check out her IG if you’re interested in her coverage of the story.

[-] urfriendjen@lemmy.ca 8 points 3 months ago

Noooo! Omg that’s diabolical. The poor woman. That bird truly doesn’t care about anyone but herself, does she?

I remember checking in on her page to see how she responded when the George Floyd protests were happening and man was it bad. I was glad to see people calling her out and hoped it might be a growth moment for her but clearly it was aaall for show.

[-] urfriendjen@lemmy.ca 15 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

Wow, can’t imagine what it must be like to pass the buck like that. She’s acting just like a corrupt corporation, blame it on an employee and keep rolling along.

Thanks for sharing these

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Q&A (lemmy.ca)

New to the snark but longtime critic of the bird (could never bring myself to follow but I had a mutual connection from my guelph days). My main draw to this community is the hypocrisy of female empowerment influencers and corporate exploitation of women and female relationships to fuel rabid overconsumption 🤮

I found the Reddit sub the day it was banned so I missed out on a lot of the great work that was done by so many of you. Someone else asked for a TLDR of the community so figure I’d start this for anyone else who had questions.

My starter Qs…

  1. The plagiarism — what are some examples? Did people talk to her about this? If so, what’d she say?
  2. I loved Janette’s Mother’s Day parody and got some of the references but some were lost on me —could someone detail the actual story behind that?

Thanks in advance 😊👍

[-] urfriendjen@lemmy.ca 9 points 3 months ago

Very cool. Thank you for this info and for being so welcoming 🙏😊

[-] urfriendjen@lemmy.ca 14 points 3 months ago

A CDNdeinfuenced page was started, not a single mention of her and it was still banned. This seemed like a safe route to me as NYC and LA both have their influencer snark communities but no. There are some very serious censorship issues I hope Reddit will be seeing clearly. These influencers are businesses and must be held accountable

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