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We should stop calling child molesters "pedophiles"
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this post was submitted on 08 Jul 2024
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I think your conclusion here is a sound one, but I don't know if the logic works. Because for a heterosexual teleiophile, there are multiple legitimate avenues for outlet. Paedophiles do not have any legitimate outlets that don't cause harm.
What is that argument? Do you need an "outlet" or you'll eventually become a rapist? I think many people spend years/decades without sex and they don't suddenly become unstable.
The argument is purely in demonstrating an obvious difference between teleiophiles (i.e., normal people) and paedophiles. Any attempt to conclude something broader than that would be a mistake.
By using the word "outlet" you're implying some sort of emotional buildup. Otherwise you're not saying anything at all and your comment is pointless (no offence!).
Fair point!
Though, as many pedophiles are also into adults (i.e. are non-exclusive), I may assume they do not live a celibate life. Some do, though.
I also wonder if priests being common offenders is driven by celibacy and unavailability of any sexual outlet.
It's a good question, and one that's frequently raised. I dunno if it's actually supported by evidence though. Do priests actually commit child sexual abuse at a higher rate than other jobs with positions of authority over children? Not a rhetorical question: I don't know the answer, and I think it would be a very important data point in helping answer the question you raised. I've always viewed the biggest problem with priests being their proclivity for protecting each other's abuses, and the highly systemic manner in which those abuses and cover-ups have sometimes taken place. It's a stark contrast from, say, teachers, where it does happen, but any time it's caught the punishment is far more severe.
That's true which is why I argue that demonizing AI CP and child size sex dolls just makes the problem worse. Yeah it's fucked up but the alternative is even more so.
It's an area that would be worthy of research, though I have no idea how you would conduct that research. I've heard that claim before, but I've also heard the claim that it could actually make them more likely to offend, because it actually doesn't (these people allege) act as an "outlet" in the way I described before, but instead actually acts to normalise it for them. Which is true? I have no idea. That's the research that would be needed.