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[-] jordanlund@lemmy.world 3 points 4 months ago* (last edited 4 months ago)

Seems like there's one or more categories missing here... how does the Mister Rogers "look for the helpers" phrase fit in? The people who, in the face of trauma, seek to assist rather than avoid?

All four of these categories are negative, I don't see any positive response to trauma.

[-] bam13302@ttrpg.network 10 points 4 months ago

I think the intent is to show untrained instinctual responses, not learned responses, I'm not sure though some of this chart I find odd, still parsing it to figure out what

[-] jerkface@lemmy.ca 3 points 4 months ago

Trauma is negative by definition. It isn't just a bad thing that you experience, it is an injury you receive as a consequence. Maybe you can find positive aspects of breaking a leg -- I get to work on my novel! -- but the injury is purely negative.

[-] jordanlund@lemmy.world -1 points 4 months ago

The injury is negative, how we react to it doesn't have to be. ;)

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[-] jerkface@lemmy.ca 3 points 4 months ago

Yes. The injury is the trauma. It is negative. This post is about trauma. How we react to that trauma is a different thing. It can be positive or negative towards the goal of healing the trauma. But that's not what this post is about. These are the ways that psychological injury manifest, not how people react to those injuries.

[-] gofsckyourself@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

Socks with sandals is certainly traumatic.

[-] jordanlund@lemmy.world 1 points 4 months ago

Oh, not a sock. That's a giant bandage. Sandal is the only thing that fits over it. :(

[-] Rolando@lemmy.world 2 points 4 months ago

Yeah, a lot of these "cool guides" are just some BS that someone on reddit came up with.

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