I'm not sure I understand what you are trying to do... do you want to build a radio? Or are all your signals in the audio range?
Anyway:
- w2aew has some great videos on diode ring mixers, like this one about winding the transformers: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=a8ViWS61hsU
- You can also get ready-made diode ring mixers (including transformer and everything) like this one: https://www.minicircuits.com/pdfs/SRA-1W+.pdf
Regarding Gilbert cells, the two popular chips are MC1496 and SA631. The 631 comes with a built-in oscillator, so it's quite handy. Unfortunately both are hard to come by these days.