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A retired Aurora police sergeant faces criminal charges for raping his daughter and continually sexually assaulting her and his two adopted daughters, but he remains free from custody while his ex-wife is in jail for objecting to court-ordered reunification therapy meant to repair his relationship with two of his sons.

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[-] voracitude@lemmy.world 81 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

A retired Aurora police sergeant faces criminal charges for raping his daughter and continually sexually assaulting her and his two adopted daughters, but he remains free from custody while his ex-wife is in jail for objecting to court-ordered reunification therapy meant to repair his relationship with two of his sons.

The mother, Rachel Pickrel-Hawkins, said the reunification therapy by Christine Bassett, a licensed marriage and family therapist, has been harmful, abusive and counterproductive.

The reunification therapist, Bassett, is conducting the therapy at Lighthouse Christian Counseling in Fort Collins, which advertises itself on the internet as “integrating faith into the counseling process.”

“We believe that, as we push into the hard and painful things surrounding us, God meets us with both grace and truth,” the website for Lighthouse Christian Counseling states. “It is our delight to extend that grace and truth to others, regardless of their faith journey.”

"Reunification Therapy" that turns out to be just psychologically and physically abusing victims into a Stockholm Syndrome-like relationship with the child rapists that abused them? From a Christian organisation? My face right now, I am telling you three times, it is the Platonic Ideal of shock and disbelief.

[-] Reverendender@sh.itjust.works 18 points 2 months ago

Why the fuck is the government mandating Christian counseling?

[-] dch82@lemmy.zip 4 points 2 months ago

The constitution makes about as much sense as the judges make it out to be...

[-] voracitude@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

That's a great question. I wonder if the judge knows the owner/founder of Lighthouse.

[-] c0smokram3r@midwest.social 45 points 2 months ago

I cannot tell you which part of this article I hated more. It just gets worse & worse.

The system has REPEATEDLY failed this mother. Fuck those judges, the “therapist” & that piece of shit cop. I hope one day they all get what’s coming to them for being complicit in re-traumatizing those children. This is SERIOUSLY fucked. 😤😡🤬

[-] ganksy@lemmy.world 28 points 2 months ago

Wow, that was an especially hard read. Nearly 20 yrs abuse from a person in a position of authority. Why would you force reunification to this man?!

[-] MutilationWave@lemmy.world 15 points 2 months ago

Religious reunification "therapy" ordered by a judge. I had never heard of this reunification shit before but it's disgusting. Have a psychologist ask the kids if they want to see their dad. They're old enough for that kind of decision making even though it's hard.

[-] ganksy@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago

Absolutely. Not having the children there of their own volition when the crime involved is of this magnitude... archaic. Especially in Colorado.

[-] Bakersfield@lemmy.world 11 points 2 months ago

In some areas the system is clearly broken.

[-] solsangraal@lemmy.zip 13 points 2 months ago

lol the photo of him in uniform slamming a "australian for pisswater"

[-] MutilationWave@lemmy.world 1 points 2 months ago

Is it just me or does he appear to be in a shooting range?

[-] the_post_of_tom_joad@sh.itjust.works 13 points 2 months ago
[-] CosmicTurtle0@lemmy.dbzer0.com 29 points 2 months ago

Sgt. Michael Hawkins, charged with child sexual abuse, obtained from court exhibit.

[-] Badeendje@lemmy.world 6 points 2 months ago* (last edited 2 months ago)

No no.. this is fine. It's not the raped daughter that is beiing forced into contact with dad.. it's only the impressionable young boys that will be forced into a non consensual relationship with a rapist father.

No way teaching young boys about how the government thinks non consensual relationships are OK and put them under the supervision of a rapist.. right.

I fear for these kids and wonder if they will be OK.

If they become violent sex offenders their lawyers will have a field day with this though.

[-] Intrama@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago

Couldn't make it through the entire article. Just brutal. 😵‍💫

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