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Saturday Weather: Is hot
Saturday Me: Let's spend ALL day working in the yard without so much as a lunch a break, lopping trees and shovelling compost and mulch and taking a massive trailer load of junk to the tip!
Sunday Weather: Is rainy and a bit muggy
Sunday Me: Even though it's raining, let's keep going cleaning up more after yesterday's activities and filling up another trailer load!!!
Today Me: You idiot. Everything hurts. I hate you.
Can't sleep. Miniest was upset before bed about how one day we'll all be dead and she'll be the only one left for a while. Pretty heavy stuff and she was crying and wanted to be hugged to sleep. I comforted her and told her about how when you're young death's hard to fathom because you haven't started really living yet. How it's like before you were born when there was nothing because you had no consciousness, but once you have consciousness it's hard to stomach losing it. How it's like for me in a way, with my parents and grandparents dead and my siblings are all half siblings who are much older. And I worry about the same thing but the opposite way around, that one day I'll be dead and you kids will be on your own without me to care and protect and advise. Then she told me she'd like to travel and particularly go to America because there's some really cool food she'd like to eat there, but it's full of racists and idiots and guns so it's probably not a place she'll go. Then she fell asleep and I'm thinking too much now I guess.
Oh jeez that's a difficult conversation to have for both of you.
Give her a hug
and tell her America is also full of nice cool people who make the kid's shows she loves
Aw hugs peeler π«
It's one of those "falling asleep patting the cat" nights. Goodnight all β€οΈ
Some people need to either get to the point or shut the fuck up in meetings seriously.
Some people need to ~~either get to the point or~~ shut the fuck up ~~in meetings seriously.~~
just got off a call where I was that guy. Could hear myself rambling but got nowhere.
I hope that job I interviewed for last week calls me back π€πΎ
It'd be great leverage.
Lol
Let's hope for good news man
I have a problem with overthinking about things and events that occur or may occur as a result of something.
It's definitely one of the things that gives me a great amount of stress and anxiety.
I keep thinking about things and the possibilities and sometimes bad or unpleasant things that happen stay in my mind for quite awhile.
I don't quite know how to handle those feelings and what I should do.
It's been suggested that I just move past things and forget, or distract myself to take my mind off of things or I be more stubborn about my own feelings and harden up?
There's been other things, like for example I followed all the steps and did things as soon as I realised or possible and I still get blamed for not doing it soon enough and copped some barbed words, I know it wasn't my fault but still it bothers me. (That was what I was stressing about)
There's possibly more to come in the future as the problem hasn't come close to be resolved and I hope I don't keep thinking about what might happen.
Apologies for the rant.
This is very human behaviour, totally normal.
What helps me with this specifically is saying "What if it all works out?" or the similar inverse of whatever your worry is. "I might fuck up my interview and say something dumb" becomes "What if we get on so well, they toss out their questions and we just start chatting like old friends?"
It's not like ποΈ woowoo positive β¨ mantras β¨and manifestation stuff. It's literally tricking you brain to make good chemicals instead of bad ones.
I had a meeting with the general manager who's leaving. He admitted we have too much work.
So I'm going to my manager this week and talking to her. At this stage, to keep up, I'd have to be working outside of office hours. And that isn't happening.
G'day from Penola, peeps
We're running a little early, although had to sacrifice a few itinerary items because of a tyre blowout before 9am, lol
Massive pothole somewhere in the Moyne LGA. Didn't see it. 100km/h. Wheel absolutely fucked. I mean absolutely fucked, the rim has a massive dent in it, so it's not just the wheel. No Bueno. We've stopped at about 5 places now, nobody has the rim we need. Currently pissing people off doing 80 down a major road towards Naracoorte (stupid space saving efficiency 80km/h restricted tyre thing). Oh well. Not much choice but to hope Naracoorte or Bordertown are able to help us, or leave it til tomorrow after we get to Adelaide
Stopped at a station called Kalangadoo. Fucking beautifully preserved. A bloke there has invested some major time and money into keeping it preserved (there's an ABC article about him and the station, will send pics tomorrow when I have better service). He gave us a 2 hour tour and showed us soooooo much cool stuff. When I get back home, I'm going to post him a couple of the Vic things I've collected and some photos from our side of the country in case he's interested (he did have some Vic stuff, mostly the more fascinating things, so I don't think he'd mind, even if it's not from his neck of the woods). Ripper of a bloke
Isn't it lovely when you meet someone truly positive! There's something about trains and train stations - it seems to bring out the best in people. Naracoorte has wunnderful caves - full to busting with fossils of thylacaleos and diprotodons and other cool stuff. If your itinerary permits, a visit to the caves is a MUST! Or a second visit just to do that ...
EDIT: forgot to mention the mihirungs. Which are awesome. @AlamutJones's Chook would be jealous.
Finally managed to get a hold of one of my friends.
Been an unlucky day where Iβve been able to reach anyone.
Just talking a little bit on the phone helped me a little bit with my stress and anxiety.
Iβm so grateful to be able to do that but I hope heβll be able to call me back to talk more as I know heβs been busy.
Massive lovely win for today: blood test results back in record time, everything's good, new MH plan and a really nice chilled out chat with the Dr... and he bulk billed me!!!! Ahhh!!! That's like Christmas come early these days given that the gap fee is like 60 (70 after 5pm).
...I hate how American that sounds, having to jump for joy at cheaper healthcare based onto the whim of someone else :(
Have been craving mee goreng something heinous this afternoon so treating myself to a nice spicy bowl on Victoria St. This place is always legit. I am riding the high of Nice Things until I can get my kitchen sorted our very soon...
yum
E: saw my old place listed for sale barely a week after I moved out. Well, I'm glad that they're genuinely selling it and not trying to get new tenants at higher prices. LL better be grateful that I've let her get it on the market so quickly and at a good time of the year...
Sort of fucked up yesterday.
Had 'a go' at the ol' man about the way he's trying to tackle his little fence dispute (on top of everything else). Basically long winded combative emails to the neighbour. Problem is the neighbour appears to have literacy issues judging by the way he writes (so they need to be short and to the point).
Anyway so when you have a go, let's just say he's not the sort of person that will take criticism.
So he stood up, calmly said he's going for a walk. That shit never happens it's always far more heated.
On the one hand I shouldn't have done that right now and just let it be, on the other it shows where his head is with respect to mum's issues. It's a completely unrelated issue (a fence and medical stuff) but it definitely says something.
I have no idea how to support someone like him emotionally through this (not the fence but mum heh). He's got a bunch of garden / house shit he's doing which is his 'escape' but I can tell it's really taking its toll.
Beautiful sunset out these ways, same in melbs?
The tyre, btw:
Nobody in Heywood, Mount Gambier, Naracoorte, or Bordertown either had a replacement rim available, or could buff out the dent same day. That was an absolutely cooked pothole, but we got out of it safely. Still, we've had to do about 350km with another 150 to adelaide on the space saving 80k tyre. I don't think they're meant to be driven that far, but we don't have a lot of choice. We'll find somewhere in Adelaide tomorrow I guess. We're nearly in Tailem Bend, and about 2 hours away from our hotel in Adelaide
Tomorrow was an intentionally blank day, I basically just want to get some postcards and stamps, nothing else planned yet. So having to spend the day waiting for a new wheel is no biggie. We're hoping to find an auto wrecker or something that has this model of car we can just buy a tyre off, and fix this tyre when we get back to Melbourne. But otherwise, it's a steel rim, so somebody can just carefully hammer it out for us, that just takes longer
I've been dancing with my cat and singing 'When you're a Jet' from West Side Story, but swapping it to 'When you're a Cat'. I'm sure he loves it.
It's an AC on dehumidify kind of day. Otherwise, my girlfriend starts training for her new job today, I'm excited to see how it goes
The sleep worked better than expected. Sometimes I struggle a lot sleeping that early. But I managed to doze up about 7:30, woke up briefly at 9ish, then had a solid sleep until 3:30
We're taking the really really long way to Adelaide, going via Mount Gambier, then driving up along the Vic/SA border through Penola and Naracoorte up to Bordertown, then we're taking the standard A8 into Adelaide
Nothing specific planned for tomorrow, so we can have a good recovery day. Might head to the National Railway Museum in Port Adelaide
TIL it is possible to fill yourself stupid with too many dumplings.
Sounds impossible. I'll have to research this myself
TIL about the black screen of death, like the blue screen of death but black
the dogs having their own couch again seems to have stopped the cat bullying them, for now. So thats a win! not bad for a marketplace freebie!
could not get to sleep until late π£
attempt 2 at purchasing pokemon X did go well unfortunately, but the ebay seller has been awesome to work with! its like I'm destined to not own this game.
Made it to the hotel safe and sound. The hotel room is super hot, but decent
Melbcat is curled into me with her head on my shoulder. Beautiful little baby.
