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Hi guys,

Until last month I was employed for four years. I just used to have a job at a Pizza place as a driver but due to obvious events that place closed down and I remained unemployed for four years until I got a job at Burger King last month.

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[-] afk_strats@lemmy.world 9 points 1 week ago

Can you explain NEET and what it meant to you

[-] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 12 points 1 week ago

The term 'NEET' was created by the British government surprisingly enough and was later adopted by 4Chan. As I said in the post NEET stands for "Not (in) Employment, Education or Training". NEET to me was a subculture and a lifestyle. I don't have anything else going for me and there wasn't any opportunities anyway so it just made sense to become a NEET. I didn't have any motivation for a long time but recently I have given all of my attention to this guy I'm in love with so I can be a better partner. I got a job to make some money and I'm going to the gym to make myself look sexier for him. A big part of motivation is having someone to work for and until him I didn't have that. He's the only thing in my worth working for.

[-] LastoftheDinosaurs@reddthat.com 6 points 1 week ago

Congrats on turning things around! It sounds like you're putting a lot of effort into this, he must be a really great guy.

[-] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 week ago

Thanks, he really is

[-] HoneyMustardGas@lemmy.world 8 points 1 week ago

What did you do with your time those four years?

[-] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 week ago

A lot of browsing the internet, sites like 4chan, Reddit, Discord, Instagram, DeviantArt, Newgrounds, Fandom, MAL, TikTok, StarBound Forums and KiwiFarms. Playing games such as Halo, GTA, Minecraft, StarBound, Civilization, Doom. I did a lot of weed, hanging out with friends, couch surfing, lean, night clubs, odd jobs, psychedelics like magic mushrooms and LSD, sleeping at hotels, going to bars, sex, seeing family, went on holiday to Hawaii once, cocaine, listening to music, making YouTube videos and I tried programming at one point.

[-] 5714@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 week ago

How did you keep yourself together?

[-] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 week ago
[-] 5714@lemmy.dbzer0.com 4 points 1 week ago

Like mentally? Being NEET is exhausting socially in a way

[-] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 7 points 1 week ago

Smoking weed and watching movies made me feel great although it's not a permanent solution. I have amazing friends and brothers/sisters who where always there for me.

[-] HoneyMustardGas@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

What did you do for income for all of that?

[-] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago

As I already said I did odd jobs sometimes and I'm well connected

[-] NewNewAccount@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

What does well connected mean here?

[-] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml -1 points 1 week ago

I know where to get things, how to get things and I've got associates of associates

[-] NewNewAccount@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Sounds like you’re living in a fantasy world.

[-] winkerjadams@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 week ago

Sounds like drug dealer to me

[-] angrystego@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

That's actually how the world really operates and how you can be successful. It's hard to understand for introverted folk like me.

[-] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago
[-] muntedcrocodile@lemm.ee 2 points 1 week ago

What programming languages u try?

[-] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago
[-] angrystego@lemmy.world 3 points 1 week ago

Was your NEET period connected to your narcisistic and histrionic disorders that you talk about in other AMAs?

[-] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml -2 points 1 week ago

I don't know what you mean. Personality disorders aren't like phases you go through after a little while. There permanent lifelong conditions you have regardless of your circumstance

[-] angrystego@lemmy.world 4 points 1 week ago

They influence your life, both personal and professional. They can get more prominent, if not treated, or diminish. You seem to have found help - both meds and therapy can help with disorders, so even though they don't disappear, their influence can lessen.

Therefore I was wondering whether the recent changes in your life could be connected to changes in your mental health.

[-] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml -3 points 1 week ago

I don't really know. To make that judgment I would need to know a different timeline where I didn't have these disorders

Would you do anything differently?

[-] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 8 points 1 week ago

Yeah, do less drugs, get a schedule, more time with my friends and family. I'm turning my life around, I'm spending a lot of time leaving the NEET lifestyle so I can be a better girlfriend to my future boyfriend.

[-] angrystego@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

I'm confused, I thought you had a present boyfriend already.

[-] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 2 points 1 week ago

I had a crush on him for a year now and we've been dating for the last four weeks. Nothing is official yet but I like to think he's my BF❤️

[-] mapleseedfall@lemmy.world 1 points 1 week ago

Good on you! If hes initiating dates 100% means he is in it.

[-] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago

I know, He's such a sweetheart.

[-] countrypunk@slrpnk.net 0 points 1 week ago

I'm curious, what makes you say the less drugs part?

[-] SpaceFox@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 week ago

Well, no one's going to argue that doing drugs is a good thing

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