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Lucky for me my parents were both "I didn't save anything for retirement, my kids will take care of me when I'm older", so I don't have to suffer through this.

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[-] Nyxicas@kbin.melroy.org 7 points 3 days ago

I am not one of those children that clutches their pearls for family members to give what they busted their ass for away for free. My father just paid off the mortgage of his home. It is his.

And he paid it for over 25 years as people like us lived in and left it. It is just unearned entitlement for any of us to come to him, demanding or expecting something he earned through hard work.

And it is something generations after his wont understand. You try being 66 years old and enduring the grind for so long to finally have something like a home to yourself. And not have a thought of reluctance of just giving it away.

It is ironic considering how much of a clutch todays generations have with their phones. Does anyone think they are the kind to give a home away when it is paid off? You tell me.

[-] NocturnalMorning@lemmy.world 6 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

We're talking about what happens to our parents stuff when they die. What are they going to do, burn down the house when they die? Oh wait, that's exactly what they're doing, climate change is a hoax to a large portion of boomers, housing costs have risen well past cost of living, university costs have ballooned to unsustainable levels saddling an entire generation of people with debt they can't pay off, we have some of the most ineffective, expensive health care in the world, and oh, to top it off, we just elected a far right government that wants to wipe their ass with the constitution, and usher in the U.S. version of the third Reich. Some inheritance..

[-] drdalek@lemmy.dbzer0.com 7 points 3 days ago

A ton of it is going to scammers overseas too, even better.

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[-] AmberRose@lemmy.ca 0 points 1 day ago

My grandma is so caring and she's always active to do the necessity for her loves ones when needed

My father would endlessly yap about his retirement plan and 401k and all shit like that, as if the US Dollar is going to still be a currency in circulation in 2030.

[-] dsilverz@thelemmy.club 5 points 3 days ago

I'll certainly be out of this world long before I ever stopped to think about my retirement. That's my retirement plan.

[-] Sixtyforce@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

You'd be completely wrong. In my case.

[-] Blackmist@feddit.uk 3 points 3 days ago

How dare they raise you and then spend their own money?!

[-] Flocklesscrow@lemm.ee 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

I would argue that the stereotype is that most Boomer parents did not actually do much "raising." They had kids out of some sense of obligation and then kept on focusing on themselves.

Boomers, as a cohort, are incredibly narcissistic and obstinate.

That said, I don't particularly care about an inheritance; I want my Dad to live as long as he can and be happy and healthy.

[-] JasonDJ@lemmy.zip 2 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

Gen X and especially millennials are the first ones to be mostly raised by two working parents. We've been fucked since we left the womb.

Boomers: Stay at home moms were the norm.

Before that, huge families and "it takes a village"

Nowadays, it takes three jobs to be able to afford daycare.

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[-] Itdidnttrickledown@lemmy.world 2 points 2 days ago

Mine didn't. Gave it all to my golden child sister.

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