Solo boardgaming: tons of cooperative games can be played solo. At the moment, my main games are Marvel Champions and Arkham Horror LCG.
Cross-stitching: maybe the easiest kind of embroidery, perfect for pixel art patterns and you don't need expensive stuff to get in.
I have a few; the main one right now are mechanical wristwatches - learning about them, acquiring them, wearing them, taking them apart, trying to put them together again, modifying them, all of it.
That's such an underrated skill! Constantly seeing people on Nextdoor asking for help fixing their old watches. If you have a repair cafe then it's worth volunteering, you'd have a lot of practice!
I’ve taken up cycling recently, it’s a great time to think about absolutely nothing and clear my head, while also getting fresh air and exercise.
Okay...
Well, Programming - Except I am doing it.. slowly. A lot of the days I just.. feel stuck. Depressed. Buuut, I keep trying. I mainly use Common Lisp, and I try to make small games, or.. things that will help me do something (e.g scrape some text and put together a epub?)
Reading books - This one, I can do a lot. Simply, a pleasure. I tend to do this with an approach of spray n pray, aka: Read few minutes of a book -> Move to next for few minutes, and I keep doing that few times a day, or more, and more often than not, It sticks, and I get actual big times out of that. (The result is, I am reading 5 books at once lmao)
Learning Japanese - This one, I am combining with my previous hobby, and I am simply aiming to read at the very least ~1 hour per day of reading in Japanese. Is fun.
There was also pixelart at some point, but I haven't been doing that in a while. Maybe I should try again? Could be fun, again.. perhaps..
Obviously, also, games. You know, some TF2 there and there, Hunt:Showdown, with friends.
Still thinking, if there are any other things I could try, and.. wide out hobbies.
Sourdough. I make 1 loaf a week,.but I eat a loaf every 3. That gives me 2/3 loaves to give away. People really like you when you give them bread. The socialization is really a side effect. I enjoy baking bc I like ~~murdering billions of yeast in a fiery death~~ cresting things with my hands.
Reading, knitting, crochet. Also journaling! I like gaming sometimes too.
I've gotten into writing with fountain pens lately. It's been pretty fun!
Sim racing. There's an initial expense to buy the wheel and pedals, but it's a really fun hobby and if you find the right people a great community. I recommend starting with a Assetto Corsa which is an older game with an amazing mods. Avoid the temptation to get into iRacing until you're sure you like the hobby.
I had a co-worker who was super into sim racing. He had this insane setup in his living room with a chair, pedals and so on. What wheels and pedals do you recommend to get started? 🤔
Most people start out with a Logitech wheel and pedal set. The G923 is a great option for buying new, but you can also find the G29 or G27 for cheap used.
Once you have the wheel and pedals, there's tons of games you can use them with. I also love American Truck Simulator and Dirt Rally 2. There's lots of people streaming those games as well as Assetto Corsa so you can see on Twitch or YouTube what they're about. Also, if you go on Steam and type in sim racing you'll find tons more games, but these three titles are more than enough to get you started. I have hundreds of hours just in these three games.
Programming. I love making small command line programs in python or automating something. Someday I want to make a music desktop app that syncs songs to my phone.
Hot swappable mechanical keyboards. It can be pricey but there's hot swappable keyboards on amazon for cheap, and you can get your own keycaps and switches to create a keyboard that you are really happy with. I love being able to tinker around with my keyboards and swap things out if I don't like them.
Making a "second brain" or personal wiki. I love taking lots of notes (recipes I like, about what I learned, how to fix a software problem, etc) so I can find things easier in the future. I use Obsidian for this, it's really fun.
Lock picking. I got into this for a bit, bought some lock picks and bad padlocks. I watched a lot of LockPickingLawyer's videos and thought it looked fun so I tried it. I was bad at it, it's a lot of feeling when the pins move and stop. It takes a lot of patience but it's really fun.
Making edits to Open Street Map. If you see something wrong, you can go edit it if you make an account and use a map editor.
Raspberry Pi self hosting. I think they are hard to find right now, but it's cool to have a small computer running Raspberry Pi OS (linux) where you can install pretty much anything on it. I run Pi-Hole on mine and it blocks so many ad and tracker domains it's insane.
Making a game. I'm slowly trying to learn blender and unreal engine to make a game. I think it will be fun but also a nightmare.
Needlepoint. Even if you're following a pattern, it's creative, takes time, and is quite meditative once you get going. Materials are cheap and accessible. Just need good lighting, a comfortable seat with space to move around. Be aware that you're holding sharp object and there will be loose threads, so no small children or animals nearby.
I cross stitch. I haven't done it in a long while, though. I ought to get going on my sampler again.
skateboarding, smoking weed, weed edibles, ketamollycaine, nitrous oxide, eating food, watching tv, video games, dubstep, hot tub, snowboarding, disc golf, music festivals
Too bad weed is not legal here. I reckon that'd help with the anxiety.
I have a wife and a three year old, so I don't have a tremendous amount of free time these days. Still, I fill what I can with PC gaming (wife and I are playing Valheim together currently), reading fiction, and occasionally writing. Occasionally.
I'm in a similar boat with family obligations -- our almost-two-year-old has no respect for bedtime! 😅 -- but I make time once a week to play a rotating collection of co-op survival games with college friends, and occasionally find time to work on making mods for racing sims. I used to autocross and would love to go club racing again at some point, but there's just no time or budget for it at the moment.
I figure eventually here these kids are going to be old enough to get in on these co-op survival games. I hooked up my old Wii recently and my daughter loves to play Mario Kart, even it she only drives in circles and shouts, "Find me, Dad!". We just have to get through the sleep deprivation and maybe another thousand bedtimes or so, and then hey.. It'll probably get easier.. 🫠
When kiddo's down in the home office with me his favorite thing is to play with my simrig. He'll point to the wheel and ask "Dwive? Dwive?" and then when I set him up he'll happily saw away at the wheel for a half an hour at the time -- usually right into a wall, but I can't expect perfect apexes from a 20-month-old, can I? 😅
Cooking is one of my favourite hobbies. I can get lost in creating a new dish and playing around with all the ingredients. I sometimes feel like a painter when creating food. It's super relaxing for me.
in the colder months, i enjoy yarn crafts (crochet and knitting).
Honestly I have a lot. ADHD has me running in circles trying new things all the time lol.
Programming (until I turn it into a job). I'm just about to start on some small personal projects, and maybe some open source development. (Maybe contribute to lemmy?)
Voice Acting, though I haven't done much in a couple years. Really need to get back on that, it was fun.
Gaming/TTRPG. My friend groups for this overlap and it's a good time. I am (willingly) stuck in the forever DM position.
Watching TV Shows/Anime. Just anything that catches my interest, and I like to do some minor reviewing.
Reading. I'll read pretty much any medium. Books, graphic novels, manga.
Learning Japanese. I've made some pretty good progress here, though I've fallen a bit behind in my flashcards.
I love pickleball. Social, active, easy on the body, and loads of fun.
Walking my dog - Better awareness of my neighborhood/getting to know my neighbors. Fresh air, sunshine, and time to work through my thoughts helps me stay clear headed. Cardio is good for you.
Fencing - both physically and mentally challenging. It is basically violently enforced meditation. Hella fun and is great stress relief. Cons - can be expensive and relatively few adults.
Reading fiction - I enjoy getting lost in other worlds. Helps to disconnect from the internet from time to time
Yoga - reduces random aches and pains from sitting all day at work/high impact activities. It just generally feels good afterwards.
Curling - team sport I do with my spouse. Throwing shit and drinking/eating afterwards is nice. Good community to socialize with.
Watching movies/tv/YouTube - Lots of great stuff out there. Easy to do too much of this one, especially youtube.
Oooh... How... how expensive can be fencing? Because, kinda.. sounds fun?
It can depend on where you're located and how deep you get into the sport. For beginner classes, in my area, they are ~$100 for 6 weeks. It gets more expensive once you need your own gear and if you choose to compete and/or take private lessons.
I think the most comparable comparison in costs are probably club hockey and club soccer.
Oh That is actually.. not that bad. I think, once I find a job again, I will definitely go for it. Thanks
I flip balisongs (butterfly knives)! I got a trainer earlier this year and I've been slowly learning more tricks. I find it's somethitg quite relaxing since I tend to be quite fidgety and it's nice to be fully focused on something once in a while.
Balisong flipping is a ton of fun! The cuts not so much haha.
What kinda trainer do you have?
I got an ownall addax after not too much deliberation because I didn't want to go too deep down the rabbit hole and just got my hands on something and it's been serving me really well !! My country has a ban on bladed balisongs though so I don't think I'll get one of those anytime soon...
I do have trying to make one myself at one of tde workshops at my uni as a project in the back of my mind though so that should be fun!
That sounds incredibly cool. Knowing myself I'd probably cut a finger off, but that's definitely something I'd like to try at some point!
The fact you have depression/anxiety and have managed to turn going to the gym into a habit is impressive, tell me your secret!
I sing choral music (I'm a soprano) in a couple of choirs. Summertime can be rough as during the rest of the year I'm busy a few nights a week but they break up for the summer holidays which isn't great for my mental health.
I also do jigsaw puzzles - started during lockdown and it's good to be able to do something manual rather than screen based. Calming too.
Also just started crochet, making a baby blanket for my incoming niece. Not very good at it but hoping the baby won't care.
Otherwise I go to comedy shows regularly and try to read as much as I can.
Something I have recently been trying to get into is sewing. I am still working on making it a daily routine, but I have enjoyed it so far. It is rewarding, relaxing, and a great way to get off the phone.
Programming used to be my hobby. Unfortunately I went and turned that into a career, so I had to get some new hobbies. :)
Fishkeeping. I have 2 aquariums currently - a 20 gallon with freshwater tetras, and a 6 gallon shrimp tank. Moving to a new place soon, and bought a used 120 gallon tank (that I need to set up).
Videography. Ever since me and my wife had kids I've been using GoPros to film events and vacations, and then putting together video collages. Recently I got a real camera (Fuji X-T3) and kitted it out with accessories to make better home movies.
Homelabbing. It started out with a single external HDD enclosure with 2 disks for backups. Many years later it turned into a 12U rack with a network switch, firewall/VPN, 50TB storage server (for umm.. Linux ISOs mostly) that runs various VMs and Docker containers, and some other machines like Plex server and game servers for my kids. I'm slowly learning about self-hosting things like photos and other media.
Bouldering sounds fun! I'd love to try that at some point. But first, I'm gonna try to rope some of my friends into starting off with indoor climbing.
My hobbies are drawing, reading, and learning a language! Haven't done a lot lately though. My main 'hobby' right now is studying. For school. (☍◡⁰)
I love drawing since it's relaxing. I might doodle whatever comes to mind or accidentally create something pretty lol. I read webcomics as a replacement to bingeing shows. Not always a good thing but it can serve as a good distraction. Then there's learning languages... I was studying German a while back and fell off. But opening yourself to a whole new culture is thrilling, especially once you get past basic level. Definitely hoping to travel abroad to Germany someday.
One more thing. Maybe volunteering? You meet different types of people and they all tend to be friendly and laid-back. I joined a volunteer club last year and it's been pretty fun, even when I had some depressing or anxious days. Plus it can be a nice way to socialize.
Playing games. I like games because they catch my attention for a long time. I enjoy card games, action games, driving simulators, RPG, platformers, arcade. I'm starting to get interested in TTRPG and I found a community you like that talks about playing them solo: !solorpg!solorpg@lemm.ee or you could go for !solorpg@lemmy.ml I also read, do crossword puzzles, and do puzzle games on the computer. I think gaming, doing puzzles, and reading are good because they keep my mind working. I also like to doodle. I have a book about keeping a doodle journal that I like called Doodle Art and Lettering with Joanne Sharpe: Inspiration and Techniques for Personal Expression I like doodling and lettering because it's a nice way to get my thoughts out of my brain and into some other space. I also like walking and hiking, which combine well with reading.
Oof, I don't know if I want to recommend anything I'm interested in as it cost lots of money to really enjoy these hobbies.
I guess at the base of it, my biggest hobby is generally upgrading every aspect of my day to day life.
Building PC's
I've got 3 gaming PC's in the house (wife's, mine, and another for the tv with steam-big-picture) and also an Unraid server for media.
Desk Setups
I have 2 separate desk I put together. One for work and one for gaming. Both desk are wood countertops bolted onto sit-and-stand desk frames.
Work desk has a 34inch ultrawide. I also have a Herman Miller Logitech Embody which has helped my back immensely.
Gaming desk has a 38inch ultrawide which is awesome for gaming. And I have a Herman Miller non-logitech Embody. There are some subtle differences in how they feel and I need 2 chairs because I sit a little differently if I'm working or gaming.
Audio
I fell into the audio trap for my gaming and work desk partially thanks to r/headphones.
Headphones wise I have:
Amp/Dac/Mixer:
Everything above has been collected over the last 4-5 years or so.
Oh also OP if you made it this far down, check out twitch streams for a "board game" called Blood on the Clocktower. It's a social deduction game you can play in person, but the community built a pretty comprehensive web-based tool to play online. My wife and I watch the streams every week it's a lot of fun. She plays in some of the games too, I mostly just like to watch.
I write music! I originally used the free program Finale Notepad where you can write sheet music with digital instruments "performing" it. I switched to Musescore which is also free but has better-sounding instruments and more versatility for things you can do within a composition
3D modelling, digital painting, photography, cycling, and knitting although it's been a while since I did the latter. Need to get back into it.
Oof, there's a long list and I wish I had time to do them all properly ... my advice would be to find out what's happening close to you that includes a social element and go try that. That's how I got into archery and I'm really enjoying it because when I go to the club there's always some friendly chatty people there :-)
If you like TTRPG have you tried Warhammer? Where I live there are Warhammer stores in most large towns which regularly host games and events with other people. It can get very expensive I must admit but you can buy 2nd hand miniatures from eBay for much cheaper.
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