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What do you do (either in your country/culture or as a tradition with your family/friends) to celebrate or mark this time of year?

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submitted 11 months ago by wildeaboutoskar@beehaw.org to c/chat@beehaw.org

Anyone recommend any good discord servers for chat/gaming?

Looking for something relatively active and not too toxic, figured Beehaw is a good place to ask

[-] wildeaboutoskar@beehaw.org 14 points 1 year ago

I don't understand a lot about this conflict but surely there can be no justification for this. Those poor people

[-] wildeaboutoskar@beehaw.org 12 points 1 year ago

Better than last week in that I feel almost back to normal. Never had a chest infection before (that wasn't Covid) but it was like being hit by a truck, wonder if having had Covid twice makes me more susceptible to these things now. Or maybe I'm just getting older.

I will know if I have a future at my work by the end of the week which is slightly nerve wracking. My job is safe but due to the restructure my salary is protected only until April, when it decreases by a fair bit. I am handing my notice in after Christmas if management don't agree to keep my salary at the same level as I've worked too long and hard there to be treated like shit salary wise. Hoping it won't come to that but we'll see. Meeting management this week and making my case as it's budget time.

[-] wildeaboutoskar@beehaw.org 12 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Done!

I respect your policy above but you may run into declining response rate in the long term without some kind of feedback, as there will be a 'what is the point' feeling. I may be wrong of course (and hope I am!), just something I've seen at work. I completely get your reasoning though.

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Are there any decent open source alternatives or should I be looking to go down the building route?

I am a coding newbie so would be a bit daunting!

[-] wildeaboutoskar@beehaw.org 11 points 1 year ago

That must be incredibly frustrating, but it's also good to see the anaesthetists take their job so seriously. Hope you don't have to wait too long

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by wildeaboutoskar@beehaw.org to c/chat@beehaw.org

Keeping the weekly post warm until @alyaza comes back 🙂

What's everyone been up to? Any plans for the weekend?

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It's summer holiday time in the northern hemisphere which made me think of this.

What kind of holiday/vacation do you like going on? What do you like doing? Beach, adventure, city break, etc.?

What's the last holiday you went on that you really enjoyed?

[-] wildeaboutoskar@beehaw.org 22 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Thanks for posting, it's really interesting to see what goes into running something like this.

Chucked a bit into the pot. It's not a lot but I want to contribute where I can.

[-] wildeaboutoskar@beehaw.org 23 points 1 year ago

We have the phrase 'every Tom, Dick and Harry' which is like that (UK)

If we're talking about a generic person it's usually Mr/s Smith or Mr/s Jones (near Wales)

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Not marking this as NSFW because it's about health, but mods please let me know if you think it should be and I will change it.

Health screenings are so important so I don't want to put anyone off them, but has anyone else found them more difficult as you've gotten older?

Just had my cervical screening and it hurt like hell this time. Last couple of times have been fine. Not sure if it was the nurse or if I'm just more sensitive today or if it's a normal thing to find it more painful. I figure if it is the latter then it's good to be aware.

[-] wildeaboutoskar@beehaw.org 32 points 1 year ago

This will have an impact on journalists who use Twitter to get tips for reporting. Seen some who were concerned this would happen

[-] wildeaboutoskar@beehaw.org 17 points 1 year ago

Great news, this is exactly what Oxford Street needs if it wants to keep it a decent shopping destination. Last time I went I saw way too many closed shops and dodgy American sweetshops

[-] wildeaboutoskar@beehaw.org 15 points 1 year ago

Not on your instance but it's so good to see unequivocal inclusion and support for the trans community. There should be no room for bigotry of any kind.

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What books/podcasts/videos do you recommend on philosophy?

Can be of any style (introductory or more comprehensive), just would be good to build up a repository on here and see who else is interested in philosophy more generally.

I find The Prince by Machiavelli fascinating, can definitely see how some leaders take his ideas to heart.

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Skincare is one of those things I always feel like I should be better at (and that I'm failing as a girl because of it somehow). I'm lucky as my skin is fine really (I drink a lot of water) so I've never really done anything. Selfcare is something I struggle with generally so never found it worth the effort.

I'm thinking as I enter my thirties though I should. Just had a sheetmask and enjoyed it but I have no idea where to start generally in terms of it.

What's your skincare routine? Is it worth the effort/cost?

[-] wildeaboutoskar@beehaw.org 12 points 1 year ago

More folk than you'd think! We had an influx of Reddit folk recently (wasn't expecting them to be embraced as much as they have been, nice to see)

[-] wildeaboutoskar@beehaw.org 10 points 1 year ago

Ah I thought it was just me! Couldn't log in for a good couple of hours (which was good really as it made me do my work ha)

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What do you read when you're struggling to read what you usually read?

Or to put it another way, what's your junk food/comfort read?

[-] wildeaboutoskar@beehaw.org 12 points 1 year ago

I like the name as it conjures up a cute image of a bee in a little cowboy hat. The icons are nice too, I like the consistency. More generally, I like that there's no tolerance for trolls here, people are generally friendly and it feels like it's easy to comment without worrying about the replies you might get. Plus it's transparent - I like the fact the admins post updates on bugs, finances, etc.

I'm on Lemmy.world as well and it feels slightly more like the old place in comparison.

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Where does the best cocktails in your opinion?

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