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This is a community for bisexuals, their allies, friends, family, anyone curious about us or our community, or just people who want to hang out.

Bisexual means different things to different people, and I'm not going to tell you what it should mean to you. But one thing I will say is that being bisexual does NOT mean being trans-exclusionary. We love no matter what dingles, dongles, or dangles you do or do not have in your pants.

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So… does she like me or am I overthinking? (lemmy.ca)

submitted 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago) by voytek709@lemmy.ca to c/bisexual@lemmy.world

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So, yes, I still like Karl, the guy I’ve been talking about, but I can be attracted to more than one person.

So, Nichole (17F) and I (18nb) have been talking a lot more recently. We’ve been friends since sophomore year (she was a freshman) but we haven’t really talked until recently.

I started to gain feelings for her after we did more stuff together, like calling.

Quite recently, we were discussing sex, and she said she would be down to have sex with me.

She also said that we could date if I wanted to, but if I didn’t see her that way, we could just be friends with benefits.

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[–] discostjohn@programming.dev 11 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Would you tell someone that you'd bang them or date them if you didn't like them?

[–] voytek709@lemmy.ca 1 points 1 week ago

Yeah, probably not

[–] Ephera@lemmy.ml 9 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Hmm, hard to tell. Maybe if you guys got married, that could be a sign that she likes you. Then again, maybe she just likes the thought of being married, so still can't be too sure.

[–] Acamon@lemmy.world 6 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Yeah, if it wasn't for op's previous posts I'd be tempted to think this was trolling...

[–] voytek709@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 week ago

True, I guess I was just in disbelief. Thank God for my previous posts 😓 I guess I already know the answer then, just that some people are FWB

[–] AuroraGlamour@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 week ago* (last edited 1 week ago)

Well, of course she likes you :)

Assuming you aren’t a troll since I’ve seen other posts and we’ve interacted before, some people can be in denial about whether their crush actually likes them. Don’t worry, she does! 🌺

I also wouldn’t bang someone or even be “down to have sex with” I wasn’t into, and I wouldn’t tell them we could date if they wanted to.

Friends with benefits exist, but she’s saying you guys can be if you don’t want to date her. Doesn’t really sound platonic to me. (I’ve also never had sex with anyone who wasn’t my current girlfriend, but still.)