I can't imagine what it's like to be in the left column. When those expectations are brought up, I generally quit.
The title is a bit of a leap, and not really supported in the image. Without any context, you're just posting two columns of job ad jargon ๐คท And the column headings are iffy at best. Being "process-oriented" would be rule bending in some fields, whereas "tactical and persuasive" communication might be completely within expectations in others.
As for the narcissistic element, that's only referenced in your title as (apparently) synonymous with the "rule-bending" column that you say you identify more with ๐ค Sorry, that's the kind of speculation you open up for when you leave interpretation up to a reader.