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Hypocrisy
Incoherence, and it's particuarly bad when I realize i'm being incoherent
Religious people sense of rightness
So much this. I was having a discussion with one religious zealot and he kept insisting, "he's your god too" when I referred to yahweh as "his god". No asshole, I don't subscribe to your fairy tales. Though, in a nod to keeping the discussion civil, I limited my responses, to "no, I don't subscribe to your beliefs." Getting upset, yelling or insulting only plays to their ability to project victim-hood. So, it's important to stay calm and keep the conversation rational and focused on the failures of their explanations. You will never convince the delusional to give up their delusions, but you can convince the other people around, who aren't fully delusional, to question the delusions.
For f@%ing everything these days...
Lies and deceit.
I feel like I'm being played for a fool by not telling me the truth and wanting to sugar coat it or something. I can't stand it whoever it comes from, be it a stranger or my own mother.
Bigotry
Starch. This limits what I can eat. Unfortunately I didn't know this growing up, so I ate a pretty carb heavy diet which caused health issues which caused me to be grouchy a lot. Took until I nearly 40 to figure out that I wasn't just an unstable asshole.
It's a real problem, but I hate filler words. "Um uh hmm" just immediately makes me want to cover my ears and tune out the conversation. It's at a level where I've seriously considered vocal therapy to make certain I never do them anymore, but that doesn't really solve the issue since nearly everyone ends up using them. I just have to try and let go of the obsession, but it's so hard.
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Parents refusing to notice their children's needs
Intolerance.
Thanks karl popper.
_Everything _ for some reason I am super sensitive to drugs of nearly any kind
People unable to pick up sarcasm through text.
People who lack self discipline.
Dithering... Shit or get off the pot.
Alcohol Weed Lactose
Yeah Iโm no fun.
car horn sounds and girls voice specially screeming
Speciesism
I believe the word you're looking for is anthropocentrism
As my mom beautifully puts it : "I'm racist against idiots"
Centrism, fence-sitting, or like we say where i live "ser un tibio de mierda". If you're gonna believe something, do it fully and own up to it.
Not trying to contact people when they leave, they need contact unless they explicitly say they need time