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[–] Bytemeister@lemmy.world 1 points 6 minutes ago

Kinks transcend political ideology. Roger Stone was famously into getting cuckold.

[–] Nyticus@kbin.melroy.org 2 points 16 minutes ago

Femboys don't even need the right-wingers' help at all. They fetishize themselves and it is in of itself a fetish. I would know given by the amount of furry porn that encircles around femboys in general. And unfortunately, they are some of the loudest and pretend all femboys want to just be cock-slaves and cock-sleeves.

[–] endeavor@sopuli.xyz 11 points 5 hours ago

Oh yeah, the most radical and anti lgbtq people tend to jerk off to boipussy feminine penises and rape other men. No, to them this is not gay.

Yes entirety of 4chan is deficated to femboys and russian army training involves forced male on male intercourse as hazing.

[–] Opinionhaver@feddit.uk 28 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 8 hours ago)

Depends what he means by that. Are some right-wingers fetishizing femboys? Yeah. Can we generalize this to apply to all right-wingers as people have tendency to do with this sort of things? No. Turns out that people are individuals and they have different preferences. Shocker.

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 13 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

The term ammosexuals comes up alot, and yes they festishize everything because they are so sexually repressed and frustrated.

[–] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 11 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago) (1 children)

Just saw a dude dumping used motor oil on his lawn exclaiming about being proud or "dgaf" about libs, on Reddit. People snooped his profile briefly and found out he was a big fan of showing his butthole and trying to find weird sexual encounters.

I think it's true that any conservative is part of the party cause they are repressed.

[–] GeeDubHayduke@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 1 hour ago (1 children)

I think it’s true that any conservative is part of the party cause they are repressed.

Every conservative i know personally is ultra repressed, so at least anecdotally, this tracks.

[–] YiddishMcSquidish@lemmy.today 3 points 35 minutes ago

I've met some that were malleable, but the moment I brought up some gay shit (I'm cis het btw) they shut the fuck up.

I wish I was who I am now in grade school.

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 33 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I don't know if I would call it fetishizing, as much as it is denying their own homosexual desires because a lot of right-wingers are sexually repressed homosexuals.

"It's not gay if they look like a girl" basically.

[–] Bytemeister@lemmy.world 1 points 37 seconds ago

I think it's more like, "I'm not gay if a guy sucks my dick, but I'm gay if I suck his."

To Republicans, being "gay" and giving pleasure are submissive, non-masculine traits that go hand in hand. It's why they are so hesitant to go down on a woman, even though it would not be gay for a man to do so.

[–] palordrolap@fedia.io 20 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

Imagine you're a horrible misogynist who has the drive to have sex with a woman, but you don't like the idea of actually having to touch one. If only there was something feminine but not a woman. Something that could understand a man in the way only a man can, but at the same time is not quite as strong and powerful as a man...

....a couch!

[–] djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone 75 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

I don't think it's widespread or mainstream, but speaking as a femboy, we are fetishized a lot in general. Even normal people often just assume I'm hyperhorny, like the only reason I'm femmodeing is because I want cock. The creepy part about the right-wingers is they see us as "failed males" and specifically get off on the idea of asserting their dominance over us. There's also a lot of dehumanizing and degradation that I see those types engaging in, beyond the typical "slut" that normal people do. They want to sexually abuse and violate femboys to feel better about their own fragile masculinity.

I'm very glad I live in a solid blue state and can go out safely, I think if I lived in a right-wing state I wouldn't feel safe going femmode outside.

[–] ocean@lemmy.selfhostcat.com 10 points 13 hours ago (2 children)

What is a femboy honestly? A straight? feminine man?

[–] DoubleDongle@lemmy.world 2 points 3 hours ago

Boy in skirt. Often a half-closeted trans woman, but not necessarily so.

[–] djsoren19@lemmy.blahaj.zone 27 points 13 hours ago

Just an effeminate man. I don't know if sexuality has much to do with it, but I'd say the majority of femboys are gay/bi with a minority being strictly heterosexual. To be real blunt, imagine the exact inverse of a tomboy, and you're probably pretty close to a femboy. I like some p girly things, I like to wear skirts and dresses, but I also have a masculine side to me.

[–] Sanctus@lemmy.world 130 points 19 hours ago (3 children)

Everything is fetishized by the right, especially the things they claim to hate.

Yup, as a trans person I have personally experienced this

[–] Rhynoplaz@lemmy.world 58 points 19 hours ago (2 children)

So much temptation, I must ban EVERYTHING that makes me horny!!!

[–] JayGray91@piefed.social 6 points 9 hours ago

Mega Frollo energy

[–] bizarroland@fedia.io 34 points 19 hours ago

I think it was Jesus that said, "It's better to ban an entire nation from existing than it is to work out your own sexuality with fear and trembling".

[–] 9point6@lemmy.world 26 points 19 hours ago

I mean it's the logical conclusion of "everything the right says is projection"

If a right winger wants to ban something you can find as a category on pornhub, that's what they've been clicking.

[–] andros_rex@lemmy.world 44 points 19 hours ago (1 children)

Yes - there is a lot that has been written about the homoeroticism of fascist movements. For years, it’s been a meme that “traps aren’t gay.” Nick Fuentes has sex with submissive puppy boys or something.

Fascism is libidinal. The Nazis who tortured gay men in concentration camps were also very eager to have sex with them. It goes back to Roman or even Bronze Age sexual mores, where sex is an act of aggression and as long as the “superior” is in the penetrative role, then it is okay.

[–] GoodLuckToFriends@lemmy.today 4 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Where can I find these submissive puppy boys? It doesn't seem like it should be hard to convince one of them to wear one of those rape prevention reverse condoms, just in case...

[–] andros_rex@lemmy.world 6 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Where can I find these submissive puppy boys?

blahaj.zone

You can also find catboys here :3

[–] Lasherz12@lemmy.world 27 points 19 hours ago

They definitely are, although the most fetishized thing by them is black bulls cucking white men. Seems easy enough to see their criteria is things that flare up their enormous sexual insecurity. Femboys stuff fits that criteria for some of them.

[–] Notyou@sopuli.xyz 26 points 19 hours ago (1 children)
[–] TerranFenrir@lemmy.ca 5 points 15 hours ago

Oh hello again, cute cat profile picture that looks like a dick pic for a millisecond! Hope you are doing well! <3

[–] boolean_sledgehammer@lemmy.world 15 points 17 hours ago* (last edited 17 hours ago) (1 children)

They're about as fetishized as cuckolding is in right wing circles. The way those dorks toss that term around tells me enough to know that a lot of them are harboring a deep-seated desire to watch some dude rail their wives like they never could.

[–] Ledericas@lemm.ee 1 points 8 hours ago

usually someone more attractive or well built too.

[–] PP_BOY_@lemmy.world 16 points 19 hours ago* (last edited 18 hours ago)

Yeah for sure lol. It's kinda the end level of misogyny + toxic competive masculinity + extreme hetero sexual ideation. What else comes from that combo than "forcing weaker men to replace the role of women for your own desires"?

[–] figjam@midwest.social 12 points 18 hours ago (2 children)

4chan has a lot of gay/trans porn for how right they slant.

[–] Opinionhaver@feddit.uk 1 points 9 hours ago

I'd say that 4chan is among the main reasons for many of my "weird" kinks and femboys absolutely are among those. Seems to align with my assumed political leanings too.

[–] swab148@startrek.website 3 points 13 hours ago (1 children)
[–] figjam@midwest.social 1 points 3 hours ago

They are back.