Stay true to your heart.
this post was submitted on 10 May 2025
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If you use it in the web version, I have LULs, a script which makes all Lemmy links that point to a different instance which you encounter while browsing, to point to your instance.
oo nice!
Have fun and try to engage. Download an app for your phone. There are multiple per os so try them all and choose what suits you best
I found that using All to subscribe to things I like and over time using my subscribed list works.
You can also block communities you donโt want to see and view All by default.
Don't get them wet, and don't feed them after midnight.
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Totally. That's why mine e.g. is much better
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I use voyager app, unsure about other apps or website, but check if your able to easily block users. Instances and communities, I usually scroll through the all free and block things I just can't stand and are heavily just annoying, also has a ability to filter out keyword. Makes my browsing less depressing.
Just use it as you would reddit or any other social media platform. Welcome.
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Since there are other communities more fit for these kinds of questions
Because other more specific communities exist for that.
Use a trusted VPN and/Tor while surfing
Why the hell would you?
Check out !newtolemmy@lemmy.ca, we have some pinned posts. You can also ask questions as you get them :)
Honestly, Iโd just suggest engaging with any topic you enjoy. Comment, find communities youโre interested in, maybe even start your own.
Welcome! Lemmy is a great place.
explore different subs that catches your interests
Learn about the fediverse as much as possible! Learn about instances and check our their about bar/ page. Download a mobile application and explore the many options you have. Try to figure out why you want to be here. Check out the list of popular instances (a lot of the instances have esoteric names) and see if there's an instance that reflects your interests. Check what they're federated to, and decide if those are the kind of people you want to talk to/ share your interests. There are general instances like ".ml and .world. " These instances can become overburdened. The account you have on their instance is your access to the rest of the fediverse/ lemmy.
Our active user base is somewhat small. The biggest thing is to explore, read side bar rules, and post!
It's a lot of information, and when I first got into it, I felt over my head.
ALSO YOU CAN'T DELETE YOUR COMMENTS OUTSIDE OF YOUR INSTANCE.
Posting to 196 would be a good example.
ALSO YOU CANโT DELETE YOUR COMMENTS OUTSIDE OF YOUR INSTANCE.
Yes you can. But just as is true with posting and editing, sometimes a deletion will fail to federate to all instances. No federation action is guaranteed, but rather best effort.
Sorry, you can't delete your comment if they choose to disallow that. That's common on lemmy. That's why you'll get downvotes on poorly written comments you give up on and delete.
Sorry, you canโt delete your comment if they choose to disallow that. Thatโs common on lemmy.
Please show me a single case where that actually happened.
Ok what even is โthe fediverseโ and why is it called that?
Iโm here to waste time, like Iโd imagine most of us are
It's a series of self hosted, inter connected, social (mostly) media platforms sharing similar names/ templates. Lemmy is like reddit, but even more decentralized than something like mastadon, which is like twitter.Twitter. Most social media apps have/ used to have a specific purpose. Honestly, I should have this compiled in a clean and easy to share format.
Read Settlers
dot org
Also play settlers of catam
Post feet
feet content on lemmy do be lacking tho