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My FIL-to-be has a lot of erratic behaviors, what mental illness does he show signs of? (thelemmy.club)
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Obviously like the other questions like this say, it’s not a diagnosis. Plus, this guy refuses help, but I know it’s surely something his behavior indicates.

According to my fiancé, he:

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  • engages in risky behaviors (like self-harm)

  • explosive fits of anger

  • fits of depression

  • fears abandonment

  • abusive and controlling behavior (beats people up, doesn’t want his family talking to others, scared his wife will cheat on him)

  • hears voices in his head telling him to kill loved ones

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[–] CraigCabbage@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

Not a professional, keep that in mind, but I can see BPD and/or some sort of psychosis/psychotic behavior. Also, mood swings w/ psychosis could be severe bipolar, too.

[–] TragicNotCute@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

+1 to BPD. Lines up the best from my perspective.

[–] AuroraGlamour@lemmy.ml 4 points 1 day ago

+1 from me too.