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Showerthoughts

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A "Showerthought" is a simple term used to describe the thoughts that pop into your head while you're doing everyday things like taking a shower, driving, or just daydreaming. The most popular seem to be lighthearted clever little truths, hidden in daily life.

Here are some examples to inspire your own showerthoughts:

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[–] Doc_Crankenstein@slrpnk.net 7 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago)

I mean, yea, that's how the economy is kinda designed for most of the world right now.

In the employee-employer relationship, the better you are as an employer at manipulating others into working for you while you retain ownership of the revenue, paying employees out percentage of what they generated as a wage while keeping the excess value as profit, is how you make a successful business.

The business-consumer relationship boils down to a transaction where you want to be the one who has the advantage on the transaction. Sellers want to sell their products for more than they're worth while the consumers want to buy those products at a discount of their perceived value. The seller's entire job is to manipulate the consumer into perceiving more value in their products than the base material value of the product to generate a revenue that exceeds the cost of its production to generate profit. That's like the basis of advertising and marketing.

[–] thatradomguy@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago

House MD Pilot

[–] Salamanderwizard@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago (1 children)

I'll die poor with morals rather than rich and evil. I'm okay with that.

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[–] Strider@lemmy.world 7 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Absolutely true and stating otherwise is just crowd control.

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[–] BarneyPiccolo@lemmy.today 6 points 2 weeks ago

I've been self-employed for about 30 years, which puts you rubbing elbows with other self-employed business people.

I have learned that while MOST people want to run a friendly, moral, legal business, and would never cross the line, there are a plenty of amoral businesspeople who don't have any problems crossing the line.

Furthermore, they are well-aware that many businesspeople won't cross the line, so that makes their willingness to act illegally or immorally their personal competitive edge, and they absolutely look at it that way.

They watch for decent, moral businesses, and they target them in various ways, either as a competitor, a supplier, a contractor, etc.

There’s very few things more galling than yourself playing by the rules, putting in the time and effort to have some kind of social contract, only to have someone flippantly disregard said rules and contract and to benefit from it. Doesn’t matter if it’s someone cutting in line or pillaging the highest office in the land for their own gain.

[–] Malfeasant@lemmy.world 5 points 1 week ago

Learning this from my (soon-to-be-ex-) wife right now...

[–] plyth@feddit.org 5 points 2 weeks ago

That depends on how much people with morals stick together. People are isolated so that they can be manipulated.

[–] JackbyDev@programming.dev 5 points 2 weeks ago
[–] kryptonianCodeMonkey@lemmy.world 5 points 2 weeks ago (2 children)

Depends what you mean by "further". It is a trait that definitely serves well in some very lucrative areas like business or politics. But it very easy to ruin other aspects of your life like your relationships, your public image, and can run you afoul of the law. In areas of work where your image is paramount, being a liar and manipulator usually only gets you so far because it's very hard to maintain those lies and hide the manipulation under massive public scrutiny, particularly if you're doing illegal stuff in addition to it. Of course the wealthier you are, or the more fanatical your following, the more you will have others lie and manipulate on your behalf, so... accountability can decrease that way.

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[–] WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 4 points 2 weeks ago

Unless you meet someone like me, who does not wait for aithorities to resolve things.

My co-workers did that literally hours ago, admited everything within moments.

[–] finitebanjo@lemmy.world 4 points 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) (1 children)

Ha, not really. If your only measure of success is your bank account then you're playing high risk / reward with a dishonest strategy that either lands you in prison or a jacuzzi.

Then when you get to the really bad end of the spectrum, well...

Do you think Hitler smiled as he killed himself? Do you think his confidants died easy? Evil people make their own lives shit, they just drag everyone else down with them. I see Elon Musk and Donald Trump in the news on the verge of tears every other day because everyone hates them.

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[–] Venus_Ziegenfalle@piefed.social 4 points 2 weeks ago

While feeling numb and miserable

[–] DominatorX1@thelemmy.club 4 points 1 week ago (11 children)

It makes you bad at art and inventing tho. The liar plays a shallow game.

It says grim things that by playing the shallow game you can succeed in our society. I blame the rule of law. It was basically designed to be gamed.

Say what you will about dictators, at least they're human.

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[–] blarghly@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

Really depends on where you are. These people won't get as far in stable communities where people know and talk to each other. If you are doing these things habitually as a way to get ahead, eventually everyone will figure out what is going on and will, at the very least, exclude you from the group.

This pattern is the case with most people who are especially dickish or unpleasant in one way or another. Sure, a very small number of them gain power and influence in the world at large. But most of them live shitty lives. They have few friends, and the friends they do have are shitty like them. They have no money, because they have trouble getting and keeping jobs - even low paying ones. When they manage to find romantic partners, the relationships tend to be tumultuous, since the only people they can attract are just as shitty as they are.

[–] datavoid@lemmy.ml 3 points 2 weeks ago

I live my life to spite these people :)

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