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Fake: 4chan users don't get this much action.

Gay: unless one person is secretly trans, kissing a person of the same identity and expression is quite homosexual

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[–] TwoBeeSan@lemmy.world 47 points 3 weeks ago

Hot.

I have to fuck outside to get this level of excitement.

They get to stay inside and still be dangerous.

[–] Redjard@lemmy.dbzer0.com 20 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

If both are trans eggs, it's still (fake and) gay

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 3 weeks ago* (last edited 3 weeks ago)

exactly! it's straight if only one of them is trans, but if both are, it's gg

[–] StarlightDust@lemmy.blahaj.zone 19 points 3 weeks ago

I get the impression that OP has a suspicion as to what is going on and she is afraid of her gf rejecting her.

[–] WorldsDumbestMan@lemmy.today 18 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

That's somehow gayer than gay.

[–] seralth@lemmy.world 2 points 3 weeks ago

The real question is, is it Yuri or yaoi? Quick someone check the size of their hands!

[–] Smorty@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

i wana be dis..... but not "dress up as a grl".,. like its..... Fake......,.

[–] TotallynotJessica@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

I'd kiss you in a dimly lit room as girlsif i wasn't a continent away in a fascist state 😭

[–] Nasan@sopuli.xyz 3 points 3 weeks ago

I'd only dress like a girl and kiss if we could fight the fascist state after. Otherwise I'm just dressing as a girl like usual.

[–] Rozauhtuno@lemmy.blahaj.zone 10 points 3 weeks ago

Is this gay?

Well, it's not gay(♂), but it's gay(♀).

Stil cis tho

[–] Sekoia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 3 points 3 weeks ago (5 children)
[–] Duke_Nukem_1990@feddit.org 9 points 3 weeks ago

Reject Christ, Be Gay?

[–] mizule@lemmy.blahaj.zone 8 points 3 weeks ago (1 children)

Ranked Competitive Breast Growth?

[–] Sekoia@lemmy.blahaj.zone 1 points 3 weeks ago

Hey, you got it!

Read Ce Bucking Ganual?

[–] Fleur_@aussie.zone 3 points 3 weeks ago

Maybe, I'd need you to record it and send it to me to be sure.