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Don’t be a dick. No personal attacks, no aggression, play nice.
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Good question (piefed.cdn.blahaj.zone)

submitted 4 weeks ago by LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone to c/womensstuff@piefed.blahaj.zone

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[–] Tar_alcaran@sh.itjust.works 29 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (1 children)

Also sometimes saying no to anything. How dare we

[–] LadyButterfly@reddthat.com 29 points 4 weeks ago (2 children)

I have an imaginary boyfriend I refer to when I reject men, I've got the key points about him memorised. Bad men respect another man's claim to me more than they respect my no

[–] Ceedoestrees@lemmy.world 24 points 4 weeks ago (4 children)

Oh man. I straight up told a guy I was engaged, but he said that didn't matter because I didn't have a kid with my fiancé. Saying "No" and being committed to someone didn't matter. I was fair game until someone got me pregnant.

[–] LadyButterfly@reddthat.com 12 points 4 weeks ago

Oh good lord!

[–] dandelion@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 4 weeks ago

and let's be honest, the kids are a turn off for reasons less than about the man's sense of honor 😅

[–] ZDL@lazysoci.al 5 points 4 weeks ago (1 children)

See, engagement doesn't matter. Tell them you want sex because your trichomoniasis is flaring up and you need something to scratch that itch.

[–] Ceedoestrees@lemmy.world 4 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago)

I'm using this.

I've already taught my neices the art of responding to dick pics with better dick pics.

[–] JennyLaFae@lemmy.blahaj.zone 5 points 4 weeks ago

One man's response to "I have a girlfriend" was "So do I".

They're just gross and disrespectful, the goalposts constantly moving.

[–] ZDL@lazysoci.al 3 points 4 weeks ago

That last sentence is why I carry knives. 😠

[–] stoicmaverick@lemmy.world 5 points 4 weeks ago* (last edited 4 weeks ago) (1 children)

I am a cis male, married with kids. I am also a nurse, and work mostly alongside women everyday. Would my thoughts and perspective on the matter be appreciated? I have observations as well. "No" is a valid answer, if this is a place for venting and I'll show myself out. This just popped up in my ALL feed. I'm not creeping.

[–] LadyButterfly@piefed.blahaj.zone 11 points 4 weeks ago

Hey stoic! Thanks so much for your respectful comment. We are trans inclusive women only, so please don't comment again. You'd be very welcome at !witchesvspatriarchy@lemmy.ca though ❤️