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[–] vane@lemmy.world 23 points 4 days ago

Digital drugs AI, social media. People replaced sex with mobile phone dopamine hits. Misogyny and misandry in media. Lack of financial stability.

[–] CarrierLost@infosec.pub 22 points 4 days ago

Humans have discovered we’re in captivity, and so we’ve stopped breeding.

[–] NigelFrobisher@aussie.zone 19 points 4 days ago (1 children)

It’s because of mitochondrial challenges.

[–] SolarMyth@aussie.zone 10 points 4 days ago (1 children)

You only have to walk around and look at people to see it.

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[–] glorkon@lemmy.world 10 points 3 days ago

Well, I had my 18th birthday in 1994 and I put everyone off since then.

[–] deaf_fish@midwest.social 8 points 3 days ago (4 children)

I find computers endlessly fascinating and they are easier to understand than social interactions. If you took away easier forms of entertainment I would be seeking harder forms of entertainment. Probably also starting a revolution.

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[–] bacon_pdp@lemmy.world 23 points 4 days ago (3 children)

Notice it goes down over periods of time for which the political party in power is against women having bodily autonomy or rights?

And goes up when leftist policies such as expanding access to healthcare are introduced.

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[–] ronflex@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago (2 children)

Besides plenty of other reasons people mentioned, Gen Z in particular is pretty antisocial. I've seen them hang out at bars, they might get one drink and just stare at their phone. Just anecdotal, but from what I've gathered it definitely feels like those type of folk either don't know how to have fun or are averse to it. I don't mean that in a completely negative way, either. I think covid really made a lot of people in general more socially inept. Again, I don't mean that to denegrate and I've definitely felt that a bit myself.

[–] Jerkface@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago) (1 children)

I'm a millennial who just spent the last 7 years at Uni/CC and I'm not seeing any of this. COVID had a huge impact, but in general things seem pretty much the same as when I was in school in the 90's/early aughts, except they're on smartphones instead of Nokias. They just seem normal to me.

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[–] daggermoon@lemmy.world 10 points 4 days ago

So i'm part of the majority not having sex. Feels nice for once.

[–] paultimate14@lemmy.world 13 points 4 days ago (9 children)
  1. My first question about studies like this is always "how do they know this?". And I while I know I could find the study and dig into the setsils, I don't have to do that to know that this is the result of surveys taken over this time period. Unless technology develops to grant us a way to monitor and track the sex lives of people objectively and unobtrusively, that's just the best way can do. So any conclusions drawn really should be "the decline in people's surveyed frequency of sexual intercourse has gone down over time". Just to throw out some baseless speculation: could people in the past inflated their answers to appear "cool" or similar? Could there be cultural shifts pressuring respondents to deflate their numbers now? Personally, I'm inclined to believe the results of the study ARE true, but I'm not confident in that.

  2. The decline of 3rd spaces, which is a big concept with multiple causes. Car-centric infrastructure, industrialization, women moving to the workforce, capitalism, technology, etc. It has become harder for people to have intimate personal interactions with others who live nearby. I believe the rise of things like social media, dating apps, and now AI companions is less about "hey we developed this new technology to replace and maybe be better than real human interaction" and more about "we need to develop something to replace what we have lost".

  3. Consent. Reductions in arranged marriages and child marriages. Protections and rights for women and children.

  4. Economics. Everyone is overworked and tired. I've seen this in a lot of the other comments here but I actually don't buy into this quite as much. There seems to be an inverse relationship between GDP per capita and birth rate, at least recently. Most of Europe, Japan, Australia, the US, Canada, Korea, and perhaps most notably... China. All have experienced declines in birthrates, and in a lot these cases there is good modern data showing the birth rates changing as these economies develop. The countries having the most children are poorer countries.

Now, it could be that these wealthier countries have access to birth control, so this does not necessarily dissolve economics as a factor. But, my own theory is that sex is one of the cheapest forms of entertainment available to humanity (if you don't factor in the costs of children). So the citizens of these wealthier countries are spending their time and money doing other things. Not just skii vacations or going yachting, but reading books and watching TV.

[–] Bruncvik@lemmy.world 13 points 4 days ago (1 children)

From my personal experience, the 3rd spaces is a huge thing. I've met my wife in such a space, and pre-Covid I've run a large Meetup group that focused on safe socialization (dinners, cinemas, hiking, art events). I've seen countless of hookups and dozens of marriages within that group. Covid pretty much killed Meetup groups on our area, so when we want to socialize all that's left are pubs and clubs, and there I only see single-gender groups with no overlap. I doubt anyone is getting laid, and even if they do, chances of a meaningful relationship before actually knowing each other's likes and dislikes, and common interests, are minimal.

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[–] veni_vedi_veni@lemmy.world 5 points 3 days ago

Oh damn, this won't be good for the stick market

[–] Bamboodpanda@lemmy.world 4 points 3 days ago

Do you count more if you have sex 3 to 4 times a week?

[–] dreadbeef@lemmy.dbzer0.com 1 points 2 days ago
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