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[–] selkiesidhe@sh.itjust.works 3 points 16 hours ago

Stay out of my second room closet. There are no "good boxes" tossed haphazardly in there. None at all.

[–] zaphodb2002@sh.itjust.works 13 points 23 hours ago (3 children)

I got a paper shredder for like $10 from the thrift store and it fucking eats cardboard boxes like nothing. I now look forward to getting boxes so I can shred them to fuel my compost pile.

[–] Piemanding@sh.itjust.works 1 points 10 hours ago* (last edited 10 hours ago)

I thought most cardboard boxes had some toxic chemicals on them. Edit: Turns out normal brown boxes can be composted as long as you remove tape and stickers.

[–] cdf12345@lemmy.zip 7 points 23 hours ago (1 children)

Gonna need a brand/model #. All the ones I’ve tried break and jam really easily.

[–] zaphodb2002@sh.itjust.works 5 points 23 hours ago

Royal 100x. Highly recommend.

[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 2 points 22 hours ago

Damn, good idea.

[–] dmention7@midwest.social 5 points 20 hours ago

Last time my wife and I moved, we spent a ridiculous amount of money on large boxes and totes and stuff for packing. After that, I definitely feel a bit of pain breaking down a large sturdy box for the recycling bin, but it's just not worth the storage space.

We do still keep boxes for high-dollar items that have special packaging like TVs and other electronics. Both in case we need to move them, and it generally bumps the resale price if you have original packaging.

[–] rekabis@lemmy.ca 7 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago) (2 children)

I have hoarding tendencies due to a history of poverty. Not poor any more, at least not grindingly poor, but the trauma remains.

As a result, over the last two decades I have built up a rather brutally pragmatic system of “does it have long-term utility” style of purging and standardization that allows me to let go of a lot of junk.

For example, we have standardized on six different box configurations, starting with avocado boxes from Costco (the more square kind without the access dip on the one long side) as the physically largest ones, due to their high utility and frequent likelihood of being used. All other box styles get tossed unless we have an immediate use for it, whereupon it gets tossed into the recycling as soon as that use is over.

Is it perfect? No. But it’s effective and the simplicity lowers decision-based stress.

[–] niktemadur@lemmy.world 2 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 20 hours ago)

Recycling bin

That's the thing, for many of us there's no recycling bin for cardboard, plastic, glass, etc, it all goes into one big mixed public dump, like it was the goddamned 1980s and before.

There is one neighborhood operation that picks up the organic rinds and peels and eggshells for the compost. But they don't want any cardboard in there, napkins they don't mind.

There have been recycling campaigns, but they all seem to have petered out, then Covid put the nails in their coffin.

[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 1 points 22 hours ago

I have a history of poverty and I'm also selling on ebay. HELP!

[–] arc99@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago

Reusing things that are reusable is definitely people don't do enough of these days. If a box / jar / container / bottle / bag / piece of paper can enjoy a second or third life then why not do it? Too many objects are treated as "disposable", "single use" and then they get tossed - sometimes for recycling but often straight into the general trash.

[–] niktemadur@lemmy.world 3 points 20 hours ago (1 children)

Boxes are for squares.
Jars, however...!

[–] LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.world 1 points 20 hours ago

I keep the boxes for the cat. Put his bed in a lower box, and stacked a box on top that faces up so he has a hiding perch. We call it his catdominium.

I keep the jars for myself, and when I ate canned soup last night I really had a hard time deciding whether or not the can would be a good pot to start plants in. So it has not gone into the trash either. (I asked the county for a recycling bin.. but after more than a year, it hasn't shown up. I assume because I'm renting place)

[–] stevedice@sh.itjust.works 1 points 16 hours ago

I just use them as a makeshift trash can (trash box?) for other cardboard stuff. That way it's never dirty enough to be unusable but I don't feel bad for throwing it out whenever it fills up because it was already used twice.

[–] WoodScientist@lemmy.world 57 points 1 day ago (4 children)

Even worse if you have cats. Now any box can be kept based on the excuse that the cats can use it. And the thing is, they will use them! It's just a balancing act of not having so many boxes you turn into a hoarder house.

[–] boydster@sh.itjust.works 14 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

You can combine many boxes into an elaborate cat castle. I am so sorry for sharing this. Cut holes in between the box-floors and build cardboard ramps with scraps. Again, I apologize. More scraps can be used for fortress walls along the top. You can build wonderful, elaborate monstrosities this way. Beware this dark magic, it may consume you and those cats around you. BEWARE.

Edit: Employ the handyman's secret weapon, duct tape, liberally to make a good bond between levels. Masking tape works in a pinch. Your kids might even help decorate with marker and/or construction paper. These are the darkest of arts, tread carefully through these waters.

[–] Soggy@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago

One of my cats is a cardboard chomper. I've made elaborate box high-rises and eventually he will topple them like a beaver. I keep doing it.

[–] SpaceNoodle@lemmy.world 16 points 1 day ago

Please stop peeking in through our windows

[–] Jeremyward@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago

My dog loves if I put snacks inside Amazon boxes or toilet paper rolls, or any cardboard really. Treats inside and close it up. Poodle dog takes it into her spot and 10 minutes of tearing up the box to get to treats. ❤️

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[–] DozensOfDonner@mander.xyz 6 points 1 day ago

Even more important if you have a cat

[–] Branch_Ranch@lemmy.world 6 points 1 day ago (1 children)
[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 1 points 22 hours ago (1 children)

But it doesn't have a lid. But what is that, if not a vase? But it's trash. But it's a fucking nice vase tho. But...

[–] Branch_Ranch@lemmy.world 2 points 16 hours ago

That's why you save the lid to go with the jar.

[–] visc@lemmy.world 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Cardboard boxes are so expensive if you have to buy them for some reason, but free in a lot of scenarios, bulky to keep if you don’t need them and moisture sensitive, but you will need them again, but is it soon enough to be worth the inconvenience of storing them... It’s not trivial.

[–] Appoxo@lemmy.dbzer0.com 2 points 1 day ago* (last edited 25 minutes ago)

Luckily at work we get numerous cardboard boxes from servers.
Double walled and a solid conatruction to hold >25kg and a high compression strength.

[–] Gyroplast@pawb.social 8 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Gotta love Lemmy for premium shitposts like this, where one gets actual, high-value advice on effective box upcycling in the exploding comments, along with a complimentary, self-conscious chuckle.

[–] buttnugget@lemmy.world 4 points 1 day ago (2 children)

I wouldn’t call it a shitpost, is it? It’s just an accurate observation about adulthood to me.

[–] LifeInMultipleChoice@lemmy.world 2 points 20 hours ago

The guy who told us he uses a second hand shredder to feed his boxes to the compost bin may actually be anti shit posting. Straight up taking shit's jobs.

[–] Gyroplast@pawb.social 1 points 21 hours ago

Be assured, I call it a shitpost with the utmost respect for the art form.

[–] IcedRaktajino@startrek.website 26 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I have "hoarder" in my blood, and every day is a struggle to just throw things away and fight the urge of "that might be useful one day".

[–] rooster_butt@lemmy.world 12 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

And then you finally get the courage to throw it away only to have an exact application where it would have been useful a couple of weeks later.

[–] dmention7@midwest.social 1 points 20 hours ago

Last time my wife and I moved, we spent a ridiculous amount of money on large boxes and totes and stuff for packing. After that, I definitely feel a bit of pain breaking down a large sturdy box for the recycling bin, but it's just not worth the storage space.

We do still keep boxes for high-dollar items that have special packaging like TVs and other electronics. Both in case we need to move them, and it generally bumps the resale price if you have original packaging.

[–] scytale@piefed.zip 15 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

And when you finally have too much and decide to throw them out, something comes up the next day where you need boxes.

Happened to me recently. Family was visiting so we did some major cleaning around the house. I threw out a couple of perfectly useable moving boxes. Then when my brother arrived, he told us they were moving apartments in 2 weeks and were looking for boxes.

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[–] JoMiran@lemmy.ml 14 points 1 day ago (2 children)

As someone who grew up poor, I have the hardest time tossing cardboard. I built so many cardboard and masking tape toys, including entire forts and landscapes for my hand me down (donated) action figures.

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[–] tabris@lemmy.world 5 points 1 day ago (1 children)

I just moved house, and several boxes lost structural integrity during the move, but one that finally gave out, I've had for over 25 years. It was originally the box for a CRT computer monitor, and it was a very good box.

[–] bran_buckler@lemmy.world 1 points 22 hours ago

I bet a crt monitor box would be constructed very well! I recently purged a bunch of boxes that were starting to show their age that I had from a move 17 years ago. They were with me for 8 moves! Hopefully this last move will have been my last for quite a while.

[–] Lodespawn@aussie.zone 6 points 1 day ago

I don't debate myself about keeping boxes, I debate my 4yr old .. I lose more often than I'd like to admit ..

[–] FenderStratocaster@lemmy.world 11 points 1 day ago (1 children)

"I should save this box, I might return this Macaroni and cheese."

[–] ininewcrow@lemmy.ca 6 points 1 day ago

... I have about a dozen perfectly good boxes of products I've bought over the past year ... in case I have to return them

OK, OK, boxes from four-five years ago ... but who's counting, those are good boxes!

[–] grasshopper_mouse@lemmy.world 10 points 1 day ago

Same goes for "good" plastic bags, like the ones made of thicker plastic with sturdy handles that you can use over and over again.

[–] floo@retrolemmy.com 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

Or the packing materials, too, “because you know how much this shit costs at Home Depot?”

[–] FoxyFerengi@startrek.website 11 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

My best friend and I live on opposite sides of the US. We've been sending the same bubble wrap pieces back and forth to protect birthday and Xmas gifts for like a decade now lol

[–] floo@retrolemmy.com 12 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (1 children)

You’ve been sending each other your (platonic) love. The bubble wrap is just along for the ride— and it’s only ever seen the best of both of you.

[–] FoxyFerengi@startrek.website 9 points 1 day ago

Heck, that is the cutest way to think of it

[–] thatKamGuy@sh.itjust.works 4 points 1 day ago
[–] mechoman444@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (3 children)

Or that one weird looking piece of wood in the corner of the garage.

I'll need it one day! I swear!

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[–] unconsequential@slrpnk.net 7 points 1 day ago

Can you imagine the days of milk crates? I would have needed a separate shed. The jars in my house are already out of control.

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