I can call myself dumb. When someone else does it and confirms it, it fucking sucks. I'm already having a hard time convincing myself not to shoot myself in the head.
No one hates me like me. I don't need your help.
Let me tell you why I'm so lucky. In early 2013 I bought a 1946 Bungalow at 1400 sq with no basement for $51,900 on a 15 year loan. I paid it off. Last year, my father-in-law died and left his house to his only daughter, my wife. It had an outstanding mortgage of $60,000 left on it. It's a 2100 sq ft colonial with attached garage and basement. I sold my house for $220,000 and moved into my wife's childhood home. We paid off the remaining loan.
I am fortunate and got lucky on the housing market. I make $68,000 a year. My wife took the year off, but is a teacher. We are NOT rich, but very lucky. I live near Detroit, where the cost of living is lower and that helps too.
You're being a jerk.