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Guys, when you talk about the Fediverse to friends, family, or colleagues, how do you explain it?

Do you call it a “decentralized social network,” an “alternative to big tech,” or “a collection of open-source networks”? And how do you convince someone to create an account on Mastodon, Lemmy, Pixelfed, etc., without them getting scared by technical terms like instance, federated, or peer-to-peer?

I’m asking because my so-called friends don’t believe me and even call me crazy when I talk about this “nonsense.”

The future is open source, decentralized, and federated!

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[–] otacon239@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) (2 children)

My main talking points focus on the lack of personalized feed, no advertising, no one corporation with political motivation is in control of it, clear moderation log, etc.

I think the key is that you have to show them why the platform they’re already using isn’t in their best interest. Why use Lemmy when they already have Reddit? Why use Piefed when they already have Instagram? Most people don’t realize the surveillance social media puts them under or how its personalized feeds manipulate their state of mind.

Until you explain that, it’s hard to give any reason to try anything other than what they’re already used to.

[–] fajre@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago
[–] Tuuktuuk@piefed.ee 1 points 3 days ago
[–] yermaw@sh.itjust.works 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

"Lemmy is like Reddit the same way Linux is like windows. Its not really as good, but turbonerds will give you a thousand reasons why its better and you wont really understand."

"Its not filled with wankers and bots yet though so its got that going for it."

[–] fajre@lemmy.world 1 points 3 days ago

“Its not filled with wankers and bots yet though so its got that going for it.”

hahaha I use Arch, btw

[–] Valmond@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago

Simple.

Just like you introduce Linux!

[–] ProperlyProperTea@lemmy.ml 2 points 3 days ago (1 children)

The amount of gatekeeping I'm seeing here is insane

[–] Tuuktuuk@piefed.ee 2 points 3 days ago

What do you mean?

[–] Aatube@kbin.melroy.org 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

"people made their own reddit cuz reddit did a ton of bad stuff you remember?" "it's kinda like the united states but there's no federal government and anyone can host a new state. but anyone can talk to each other. confused yet? good!"

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[–] Randomgal@lemmy.ca 0 points 3 days ago

'You like reddit? It's like that but the extremists and bots wear their other side* outfits."

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