"Nobody can give you freedom. Nobody can give you equality or justice or anything. If you're a man, you take it." - Malcolm X

Yes! Let's beat hate, by hating a different group......

Yes, and I is a shock to hear that the struggles you have been through were easier than another's. We often have no idea what is going on in someone else's life. Apparently, support groups are good for overcoming this as one hears about the supports others have, or do not have.