Well—some slurs are obvious no-go. Then there are slurs that are widely used thoughtlessly in high schools. Ex.—recently saw a poster call a rule "retarded." Removed, noted "incivility, disrespectful to people with developmental disabilities." No blowback, peace restored with minimal unhappiness.

Edit: oh nuts, this my alt account. Should have posted from 108beads@lemm.ee. Apologies.

Another heartfelt thanks—both for the hard work, and for the transparency.