Beth
Hi yourself!
Thanks a lot for your Interesting comment! I'm a bit taken aback by how civil people are compared to other places. Other than one dude asking me if I want him to show me his PP (weird, what are we, 5 years old? ๐ฅด) chilling here hasn't been stressful like other places, and I didn't feel defensive yet.
There is nothing wrong with being thirsty (I totally am at times ๐) but it just feels off if that comes out in a creepy or immature way.
Bookish guys are interesting. Hi yourself ๐
Great answer! Totally agree with you. Confidence is attractive. I also dislike the thought of being 100 percent submissive. I am not thrilled with the idea of someone calling themselves my Master.
I do think a little bit of connection is needed whether it's sex or friendship, and being friendly certainly doesn't hinder ๐
P.S. You are so thicc ๐ I love your Coffee post and your nice thick hairy thighs. Come thru Zaddy ๐
Hey Sam ๐
Thanks a lot for your Interesting response!
Very good point, respect is a must! And it's cool if people have hobbies whether those hobbies are something outdoors or indoors.
Yes! Aftercare and cuddles are another must!
A lot of times I'll see a good looking guy but he'll have this weird/cold/off-putting attitude and that is such a deal-breaker. But I'm sure a lot of women can be like that too. It costs nothing when someone is friendly and nice to hang with ๐
Thanks for your thoughts and recs ๐
Yeah I'm noticing myself that Lemmy has a lot of (techy) people around. Just curious because it's a shame one website has monopoly over everything.
I don't think NSFW content is bad, I feel like in fact having different sections for NSFW posts makes community bigger because it attracts people.
I did notice that a lot of people have "sex is dirty" mindset (elsewhere not here) and then they can get pretty rude and underhanded like anything goes because basically they associate sex with something dark and secretive.
And I agree with you that in those instances having good mods is essential. It's a fine line how to mod properly but not scare folks away.
Fighting together ๐
Where are ya'll hiding? ๐
Yeah totally! I don't think online spaces as being devoid of human connections, rather another venue where to possibly meet people one could connect with IRL
Great answer that gets into the nitty gritty of it! I like tastefully done tattoos myself. I agree about being curious and that trait being attractive
No, not at all. If anything I've gotten a few polite and friendly messages but nothing mean or arrogant (yet)
I just don't think there are that many users for NSFW communities to be super active.