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[–] Saleh@feddit.org 8 points 9 hours ago* (last edited 9 hours ago) (1 children)

I have never been good in FPS when it comes to "both jump around the corner and shoot, who wins?" But i have always been good at: "Where the heck did he come from?! what is this stupid play, this is not the meta!!!" happily frustrating some tryhards. As i get older i can still enjoy that way of playing.

[–] The_Picard_Maneuver@lemmy.world 6 points 9 hours ago

I've noticed that with experience comes better predictive play, rather than relying on reaction time.

[–] ArsonButCute@lemmy.dbzer0.com 5 points 8 hours ago (1 children)

Play 4x/grand strategy and youllvonly get better as you get older.

You might find yourself playing on slower speeds with rts styles though

[–] DragonTypeWyvern@midwest.social 3 points 7 hours ago

Jokes on you, I've always been bad at RTS

[–] BigBenis@lemmy.world 5 points 9 hours ago

It's frustrating because I feel like my skills are actually still improving and better than they used to be but there's always some 11 yo kid who will absolutely wreck me over and over again to the point where I just quit out of shame.

[–] Pulptastic@midwest.social 6 points 10 hours ago

Priorities change. Now I spend more time working on my house or riding my bike than I do gaming and that is OK. It’s fun to be casual too.

[–] SonOfAntenora@lemmy.world 8 points 12 hours ago

It's literally the opposite. Platformers, point and click, full 3d and action games.

Wait you mean competitive multiplayer? Well turns out, being a sweaty tryhard after all is not possible for us all.

Particularly because of meta changes, intentionally bad players (think of feeders in moba) and general hostility within a team as soon as one of these gamers show up.

Games are supposed to be a fun pastime, most of the internet treats them as a second job, some people need to be remainded of this simple fact.

[–] SCmSTR@lemmy.blahaj.zone 6 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

But.... Why is the logo for this community a Bad Dragon?

[–] kazerniel@lemmy.world 3 points 11 hours ago

I see it as a curved sword handle on top of... idk a set top box 🤣

[–] yermaw@sh.itjust.works 6 points 13 hours ago

Beating modders and pros in Halo piece of piss.

Top 0.1% PvP stats in Destiny.

Get a job and a family, get back online and told to kill myself for being so bad.

[–] peaceful_world_view@lemmy.world 5 points 12 hours ago (1 children)

I was never that good.....and then I got old. Still enjoy gaming though.

[–] Old_Bald_Bloke@feddit.uk 2 points 11 hours ago

Same here, mid 50s, was never better than average - I'm now mediocre

[–] Demdaru@lemmy.world 9 points 16 hours ago (1 children)

The best part, I've never been competetive so I never tested myself, but sure as hell I am getting currently better at gaming.

Mostly because I am finally fighting off a list of mental shit I picked up growing up so my mind is growing cleaner and hand is becoming more sure. xD

[–] vivalapivo@lemmy.today 3 points 13 hours ago

Mostly because I am finally fighting off a list of mental shit I picked up growing up

For real?

[–] OmegaLemmy@discuss.online 7 points 16 hours ago

I never had skills in gaming to begin with, I ain't good at all. At best I'm OK at strategy, but even then I'm bad. Just give me the computer and let me do DnD

[–] CPMSP@midwest.social 7 points 17 hours ago

Strategy and turn based RPGs FTW!

[–] Kolanaki@pawb.social 7 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

My FPS skills have diminished mostly because I stopped playing them. But my souls skills are still good up until I get the adrenaline shakes in PvP.

[–] v4ld1z@lemmy.zip 3 points 13 hours ago

Those people are cracked tho

[–] JimVanDeventer@lemmy.world 14 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

Me being terrible at games now is because I am old and can’t sink the same time into it. But I beat Teenage Mutant Ninja Turtles on NES. Do I really need to prove myself anymore?

[–] The_Picard_Maneuver@lemmy.world 6 points 21 hours ago (1 children)

That deserves a medal as far as I'm concerned.

[–] JimVanDeventer@lemmy.world 6 points 21 hours ago

I am just going to frame your reply. Thank you.

[–] oplkill@lemmy.world 21 points 1 day ago

you cant lose what never had

[–] BigBananaDealer@lemmy.world 4 points 18 hours ago

i still go on cod ww2 to pwn noobs but if i ever lose its because im going against no life sweats

[–] TheAlbatross@lemmy.blahaj.zone 119 points 1 day ago (16 children)

Oh no I no longer can play the incredibly toxic matchmaking multi-player games and instead have to enjoy the automation, exploration, story, management and strategy games I've always loved

[–] IDew@feddit.nl 17 points 1 day ago

Factorio, my beloved

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[–] mudmaniac@lemmy.world 6 points 20 hours ago (2 children)

Late 20s: You realize gaming from the couch is getting difficult because the distance to the TV is too blur without glasses

Mid 30s: No longer able to consume infinite packets of instant ramen. In fact it kinda tastes nasty. Halo 3 at Legendary still tho.

Early 40s: Quake 3 Arena and Half Life 2 now give you motion sickness. Can still get by Halo at Heroic.

Late 40s: The 2ft distance to your monitor now looks blur without glasses. not getting past gold or silver in ranked Overwatch

Mid 50s: Gonna need reading glasses to play. Clair Obscur difficulty now set to Story.

[–] v4ld1z@lemmy.zip 4 points 13 hours ago

Honestly, as long as you're still having fun and enjoying game, I don't see an issue here. Sure, in some areas it might have gotten difficult, but if you're able to adjust

[–] vivalapivo@lemmy.today 3 points 13 hours ago (1 children)

I'm in my 30 and I fucking can't beat Golgra at medium. Rrrrraaaaggeeee

[–] mudmaniac@lemmy.world 1 points 10 hours ago

I'm stymied at Renoir at the Paintress' monolith. My pride is such that I rather take a break from the game than go down to Story.

[–] Hackworth@sh.itjust.works 5 points 20 hours ago
[–] ivanafterall@lemmy.world 5 points 21 hours ago

Fine, my kids can beat me at Rocket League sometimes now, but they still can't manage their duchies and bloodlines for shit in Crusader Kings.

[–] _AutumnMoon_@lemmy.blahaj.zone 4 points 20 hours ago

Don't have to worry about gaming skills disappearing if you never had any in the first place :3

[–] DoucheBagMcSwag@lemmy.dbzer0.com 34 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (4 children)

MFW: you have given up PvP in favor of single player and PvE games as that live service treadmill and toxicity are too much now

[–] samus12345@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 day ago

I just never did PvP in the first place.

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[–] newthrowaway20@lemmy.world 49 points 1 day ago

Jokes on you. I never had the skills to begin with.

[–] AceFuzzLord@lemmy.zip 11 points 1 day ago

Wait, y'all had gaming skills to begin with?

I can barely play online games against anyone without getting wiped in 0.0001 nanoseconds if it's a PVP game. Never had skills, so I'll never be in denial about losing what I never had.

[–] Beebabe@lemmy.world 5 points 23 hours ago

Nope. Not me! I’ve got new glasses. That was the entirety of the problem. Nothing to see here…I’m not old

[–] thatradomguy@lemmy.world 4 points 22 hours ago

I was already outdone like 10 years ago by my cousins who practically came with gaming consoles out of the womb. Idk how they figure the stuff out so fast.

[–] Zephorah@discuss.online 32 points 1 day ago (4 children)

It just means it’s time for solo 4x and single player RPGs.

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[–] FilthyShrooms@lemmy.world 18 points 1 day ago
[–] EtAl_isGitch@lemmy.world 7 points 1 day ago (2 children)

For me it was the Doom reboot. I discovered my twitch reflexes just weren't what they used to be. Now I play only strategy games if anything at all.

[–] skisnow@lemmy.ca 3 points 21 hours ago

Ah, OP makes more sense now. I've only ever played strategy and RPGs and was going to say I'm better now than I've ever been.

[–] lordnikon@lemmy.world 3 points 23 hours ago

I know what you mean I thought that too but I think it was more the way you move in the reboot. I went back and played old school quake and quake 2 and still had it.

[–] samus12345@sh.itjust.works 8 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

I cut my teeth on games when being balls hard was the standard. I paid my dues. Nowadays I just put them on easy (and use save states for old games).

[–] Evil_Shrubbery@lemmy.zip 5 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) (2 children)

I'm not even in the initial phases of ~~dental~~ denial, and Im a millennial, I'm not ready to get attacked like this in a meme!!

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