That's actually a much more likely situation, sinc all of these sites use the monthly active users of it's main metric, and it's been 2 months since Reddit shot itself in the foot.
Honestly, I was so close to not using Lemmy at all. It looked so alien to me, like is this really the next most popular community website to Reddit? But no matter how clunky and unintuitive it was, I was determined to make it work. After some good third party apps, I'm more than satisfied.
However, can't be said for everyone. It's clear most people made an account, had no idea what an "instance" was, and then just gave up. Lemmy should invest in making their main website easy to learn and get the hang of, and try to become more popular, accessible, and branch out. Some might say how small it is gives it charm, but undeniably more people (maybe not on one instance) is better.
Ugh, what poor taste. Did you seriously not reread this a single time before posting this?
You forgot the U.S. Military!