I'm fairly active on couplesgonewild, gonewild, milfnsfw, and latinansfw. If any of those needs a mod, let me know. I'd be happy to help. Admittedly, I haven't done any moderation since the mid-2000s on ye old vBulletin platform but I can keep an eye out for toxicity.

Don't judge me, I am a tech geek --and hopefully this doesn't break any rules but, I've been working around Lemmy itself trying to figure out how to get some basic analytics for myself. Got some interesting --and perhaps obvious data points that I am looking forward to continue see develop as we share more OC material.

Positive Sentiment by Community is just a weighted average between up / down votes. It essentially shows me which communities are more/less welcoming to OC content produce by my wife and I. That's all.

Perception by Community just distills the above purely on upvotes / (upvotes + downvotes) represented as a %

Engagement by Community on the other hand is the total of votes up + down --I am working to include comments by anyone except the OP as well. This one, IMO, is the metric we should be watching to gauge true engagement.

Cheers!

...we sat on the big couch in front of the TV. Some wild random, "amateur" swinger party playing. Started making out like highschool teenagers. Groping, grabbing and moaning. She whipped out her tits, and I started suckling on them. She asked if she could suck me. I didn't say anything and just stood up, undid my belt and zipper and pull my dick on her face.

She kneeled in front of me and started blowing my dick. I was so hard! There's something incredibly HOT about a woman making eye contact while she's on her knees, blowing your "brains out" of pleasure.

I was beyond turned on. I sat her the love seat by the window, legs wide open and worked my dick into her. So hot and dripping wet 🤤

We fucked in the love seat for a bit --30 seconda or 5 minutes, don't know. I was ready to cum but wanted to make it last longer. Get her to cum before me at least.

She was also super turned on. Asking me if I wanted to creampie her or maybe blow a load on her body. She missed feeling hot, sticky cum all over her she said.

We moved back to the sofa. This time with me sitting down, she continued the blowjob she started while I fingered her pussy. My god she was super wet. Started with one finger and slowly worked another 2, then 3 in and out of her pussy until she came. She rushed to her knees again, still with my dick in her mouth and revved it up one gear.

I was ready. I told her I wanted to cum all over her face. I stood up with her still kneeling in front me. I stroke my dick a few times and released all over her bare tits and face. A lot. She grinned from ear to ear. Cum all over her face. I rubbed it like moisturizer before collapsing on the couch myself. I was spent proper.

We chatted a little bit afterwards before jumping in the shower together. We hit bed and fell asleep almost immediately.

I woke up around 7am. And I was curious to watch what we had done the night before. So I grabbed my phone and started going through the photos and videos we took. I got hard immediately --point in fact, I'm getting hard right now recounting this.

Turns out she was awake and horny, too. We reached for the "rabbit". I was fingering her with one hand, while the other kept reaching for her breasts to squeeze them and pinch her nipples while sucking and kissing them. She was all business with the vibrator. She was done in under 5 minutes. And I was harassed as a rock again.

I turned her sideways and started fucking her from behind. Moved to mush, before pulling out and blowing another load all over her tummy, breasts, and face. Again, so much cum!

She wasn't done though. I asked if she wanted to give the new girth-monster dildo another go --ahe nodded. I fetched it, coated it with extra lube and handed it off to her. Sooooo hot to watch her work a dick in her pussy by herself. Even if it's not mine. She oh'd a second time shortly after with half the dildo on her pussy and her legs crossed in pleasure.

...well, after that we showered, packed, and checked out on the room. Had some breakfast and went back to real life. And here we are. Until the next romp 😉😜

Date night with my better half w/overnight hotel suite stay included 😉

Let's see. Drove off with wifey dressed all sexy: high black boots, and an off shoulder mindress that was to die for. I had packed some supplies beforehand: favorite vibrator, dildo, condoms (just in case), camera tripod, and a laptop.

Stopped by the hotel to check-in right after sunset. Checked out our room: nice, ample steam shower stall, good sized tub, and plenty of mirrors everywhere ✔️ we were already taking mental note of where we were going to get frisky later that night.

Left our room and made our second stop of the night for a couples massage. The vanilla kind, but still worth it. Funny enough, wifey commented afterwards how come I always get the sexy, young masseuse and she gets the older matrons 😉

Watching her strip down for the massage was such a turn on. Pair that with the fact that I had some taken a couple of the 🔵 💊, I was mildly concerned about the "flip". I don't know you all but massages turn me on big time. Crisis averted, though. I managed to keep the erection at bay.

By the way, awesome time getting pampered in a quiet and relaxing ambience. Highly recommend it if you are looking to do something before getting it on with your SO or date.

Massage ✅. Off to dinner, a little salsa dancing, and a drink or two. Excellent local spot with a caribbean vibe. It was very cold over the weekend, so the place was not packed as usual. We had our full and headed back out for the hotel ready to get kinky.

That's when I started getting super turned out and maybe a little handsy --responsibly, while driving. I had super easy access to her bra. Her boobs were free 5 minutes into our drive. Groping them one handed, and suckling on her perky nipples at every stop light I had a chance on. PS. If we "accidentally" flashed you while you were driving around Saturday night, sorry not sorry.

By the time we got to the hotel I was feeling like a teenager. I had such a hard on I could barley walk (🔵 💊 remember?).

Things got interesting immediately once on the elevator. Luckily our suite was right next to them --she rushed out on the hallway, breasts hanging out, and into the room.

We tried to slow play it a bit, knowing that we wanted to "milk" every second we had to ourselves. I setup the TV and put some porn playlists from my laptop, setup her toys on the nightstand, and opened all the black out curtains, and dimmed the lights a bit.

All the while she went to the ladies room to touch herself up 😉 and change into something more comfortable.

... alright so, have I gotten y'all's attention? Should I continue?

You shouldn't stop there. You can bite them a little bit, too

Ow, thank you!!! We had a ton of fun --both at night and the next morning 😉

Love me some natural, perky boobs!

❤️ ❤️ We had a fun morning romp!

With a whole full week here, I am starting to feel it depends on the community and it's composition. It's not LemmyNSFW specific if that makes sense. Some folks will go out of their way to upvote every post, some will do the same with downvotes on anything that triggers them, others will simply skip on to the next post and do nothing. All 3 are perfectly fine IMO.

But it's a contrast with Reddit where I've spent a few years. Reddit NSFW communities tend to drown amateur/ sub-wow content by ignoring that content (gut feeling, I've no hard analytics to back that up) and upvote produced stuff. The exception is on very specific kink /r's

💯 definitely warranted! I'd stare at it...meant you, too!

Hey, fair point; interesting perspective, though, given this is where we share and enjoy all sorts of kinks.

The downvoting on pure amateur content seems quite aggressive. But perhaps that's a matter of building the right community or communities for that particular aspect. Wife and I love sharing content but it's not always going to be hyper-produced. Can't think of a real solution but it might end up driving us away. I'm sure we are not alone on that sentiment.