My husband loved to watch me with other guys, but wasn't into humiliation (except from the other side, he did bull for some couples).

I think it's the humiliation that makes it cuckolding kink, not whether it's same sex/opposite sex. So yeah if you like them making fun of you for getting each other off better than you could, it's cuckolding.

Without the humiliation, just voyeurism I would say. Same as if she liked seeing you get railed by some guy and enjoying it, but not feeling anything except happy about it.

For original content: If you can't say something nice, don't say anything.

Best vaginal penetration 10/10 - face to face angled so there is some stimulation of vulva too, that is the most physically pleasurable way to get off.

Best anal is just not hurting, maybe 5, not bad not great, it's only good if the guy likes it, and isn't too big - I had a partner hung long but not thick, it felt pretty good with him but:

Both? One guy in ass and one in vagina? So good. It does add to the pleasure in that situation, certainly. Like 11/10. But the one in the ass kind of still not the more active.

ETA: I also really like when guys prefer vaginal, like you do. Even if they like both, even if they are bi, if they get off easiest in the pussy and prefer it that is the hottest feeling.

Small boobs != underage, and most places you can't get body piercings until you are of age. God I hate when guys think small boobs are underdeveloped. They aren't, they are small. They work the same as the big ones, same equipment in there, less fat.

Now do some posts play up the pretend underage thing? Yes and yep that's gross. This one isn't, though I do agree low effort post.

I'm a lady, and think that the expectation that men ought not be too emotional is absolutely damaging and unreasonable and am not sure how it still persists.

The second shift - get yourself a single dad, ladies! And a cleaning service for the biweekly bigger cleaning. I don't have that problem. We do each have half a second shift because that stuff doesn't go away, but it's shared, and I didn't need to explain that it exists.

Luckily I have only to ask, to get some. We have a compromise up not down policy so if either of us wants sex we do it.

He says when I move back against him in doggy is what he can't resist, also telling him about guys I've done stuff with (real or imagined) is a slam dunk.

For me it's always been rough stuff, make me. That is the quickest.

First, be gentle with yourself. I think if you are marrying someone, you want them to know about all the aspects of your sexuality even if they feel neutral about some of them.

I think you will just have to straight up tell her one of your pleasures is posting pics online, first ask if she likes to do that herself, ask if she wants to see yours when you do. If you personally don't think you've done anything that crosses a line please don't borrow trouble. As long as you are ok if she enjoys the same, I think you are good. Sooner is better for this.

Oh, and I know you say that the relationship is more important than the kink, but you are a whole package. You can't be someone else, she is getting you. You say that embracing this side of your sexuality has brought you confidence, it must be important. What you are saying (I think) is that you don't need her to be enthusiastic and turned on by it, or directly participate, you can easily enjoy sex with her however she likes or needs, and be satisfied and happy, that makes sense. But you do need her to love you for who you are.

Sexy - When a guy is really good at something and not at all cocky about it. That understated competence.

On average maybe once a day? There just aren't as many good looking men wandering around, as there are good looking women. Maybe that is a selective brain thing but I don't think so. My bisexual kids and friends say the same thing.

Isolated body parts, no, not really. But when I see a guy around my age who has taken good care of himself and is hot, yeah.

Lady here, and yes face down, ass up is the way I like to fuck! Doggy style is definitely our go-to.

Also like on my back with legs up against my partner, but that is so deep feeling can't start out that way. If I cannot get off in doggy we flip it around like this because more direct contact for vulva so it's very reliable.

So annoying but makes it easier to screen out the onlyfans posts.

What I miss is normal nudes, the subreddit. The place for unposed nudes to show different body types, anybody, no boners and no advertising for your paid site; with a "if you can't say something nice, don't say anything at all unless poster asked specifically for critique" comment policy.

Also nakedprogress. I miss the nonsexual nudes sites I guess.

Other than that, I don't think what else I want is possible, all NSFW sites are just guy driven with nearly everything for men's taste. That I don't think can be adjusted if the audience is overwhelmingly male.l, it's not a problem with lemmynsfw, just a state of the world thing.

I think it's going OK overall, growing slowly and organically seems the way to go.