[-] Rachelhazideas@lemm.ee 7 points 1 year ago

As someone who suffers from migraines, allodynia, and chronic pain, wearing glasses all the time isn't an option.

[-] Rachelhazideas@lemm.ee 6 points 1 year ago

Guys be hating on zodiac signs while making their entire personalities about Myers-Briggs pseudoscientific bullshit.

[-] Rachelhazideas@lemm.ee 9 points 1 year ago

Good is not the enemy of perfect.

[-] Rachelhazideas@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago

I don't know why you're gate keepint existential dread, but here is the APA's definition: "a profound, deep-seated psychic or spiritual condition of insecurity and despair in relation to the human condition and the meaning of life."

I'm feeling plenty of despair to the human condition and the meaning of life. I wake up everyday and ask myself why live and exist at all when existence is nothing but pain.

[-] Rachelhazideas@lemm.ee 6 points 1 year ago

Girl boring guy quirky.

[-] Rachelhazideas@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago

Girl boring guy quirky

[-] Rachelhazideas@lemm.ee 7 points 1 year ago

^OP when they remember 23% of Lemmy's userbase are women

[-] Rachelhazideas@lemm.ee 8 points 1 year ago

Good for yourself and all, but just as a reminder that Christmas can be secular and anti-capitalist at the same time. You don't need to exchange gifts, be religious, or have any beliefs or traditions about it.

It can just be an excuse to get together, cook, and have dinner. It doesn't need to be elaborate either. Christmas for many people just means a time of the year you set aside to appreciate family, friends, and loved ones.

[-] Rachelhazideas@lemm.ee 5 points 1 year ago

That's not the kind of joke made by people with secure masculinity so I think these few steps can help you:

  1. Picture a woman more successful than you.
  2. Accept that she is not a threat to your ego.
  3. Understand that your self worth isn't defined by other people.
  4. Repeat the phrase "Successful women don't exist ____(despite of/because of/for/to hate/to ruin/to mock) me." Successful women simply exist, whether you are there to observe them or not.
  5. Remove "women are ____" statements from your speech until you no longer feel threatened by them.
  6. Get therapy
[-] Rachelhazideas@lemm.ee 6 points 1 year ago

Whenever I'm dumbfounded by how people here conflate individual homeowners with corporate lanlords, I have to remind myself the average Lemming is probably 14 and doesn't understand the economics of renting. If you want to start somewhere, look up the 5% rule.

Blaming individual homeowners instead of corporate landlords is like blaming global warming on people who use plastic straws while billionaires take hundreds of flights in their private jets per year.

[-] Rachelhazideas@lemm.ee 4 points 1 year ago

Typo of 'stand'

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