[-] SmokingFurry@xalla.day 2 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I know there is a Lemmy Community Search but I don't know if a dedicated list for moved subreddits exists. Unless you ask the original mods from reddit or find a link it is almost impossible to say.

Also I believe they are called communities?

[-] SmokingFurry@xalla.day 3 points 11 months ago

Thanks for posting. I'm buying this now.

[-] SmokingFurry@xalla.day 9 points 11 months ago

I'm sorry ๐Ÿ˜ž I didn't know that was a community. I also really did want to know if i did something wrong, but I do see that as a better fit.

[-] SmokingFurry@xalla.day 23 points 11 months ago* (last edited 11 months ago)

I was just mad because I had a few people telling me I was a dick, smart-ass, asshole, ect. Just for telling them no. I thought maybe I was being unreasonable.

However I get what you're saying.

[-] SmokingFurry@xalla.day 3 points 11 months ago

I actually quit smoking 6 months ago. No only my close friends and fiancee know I'm a furry because when I call myself a "furry" it's just a persona for like anime conventions and stuff. Not huge into the community.

[-] SmokingFurry@xalla.day 1 points 11 months ago

That's the thing. We don't have a HR that handles that kind of thing. It's up to the store managers, which is all family. One of the girls called my coworker a asshole for not being gentle enough with a buggy of paint. The consequences, you ask? An apology to me and my coworker. I never recieved one and my coworker never told me if he got one and refuses to talk about it because "she was probably upset so I'm not worried about it."

[-] SmokingFurry@xalla.day 4 points 11 months ago

Well I have 4 women complaining about it. One called me a dick to my face and said "You always complain about doing your job."

One complained that I was being a smartass by saying they weren't busy so they should have done it.

One complained I called them out for giving us the wrong information on a product to load in a customer's car.

The other just doesn't like me. ๐Ÿ˜•

[-] SmokingFurry@xalla.day 1 points 11 months ago

Yeah, and I started saying no more often but the other floor guys just have the mindset "I get paid to be here. Noone is gonna tell them anything. I'll be the only one who hears it so I will just go do it." ๐Ÿ˜ž

[-] SmokingFurry@xalla.day 2 points 11 months ago

Yeah, but I love my job. Plus with living in such a small town. There's only a handful of places I could get a job. I'm only in my mid 20s but around here there's not much. I recently moved here too so I don't know a whole bunch of people...

[-] SmokingFurry@xalla.day 2 points 11 months ago

I like your advice, and it makes me think I'm on the right track. They used to call a lot more. Even for me specifically, but I got tired of it, and it made them mad, and now they call on occasion for small things like the other day.

Just it's not my job to do. Even if I'm just walking around looking for things to do either for myself or my crew. I am still working and they just don't wanna do their jobs. I'm only supposed to do it if they are busy or it's like a 5 gallon bucket of paint that needs to be brought to the front. The heavy lifting and hard work.

If I didn't love my job I'd probably find a new one. Just with 75% of the store liking me and 25% not... I think I'm good. ๐Ÿค”

[-] SmokingFurry@xalla.day 16 points 11 months ago

Everyone is my dept respects me. They do what I say when I say it. They know I'm in charge and I'm not that bad of a manager. I actually have experience from 2 other stores. It's the girls in other dept that is so used to the other floor guys, current and old, saying YES YES YES!!! However I don't say yes which makes them mad.

In my store we have "floor guys" that do everything. We are supposed to know the store and help when and where we can. Which is why we get paid more. However just because we CAN doesn't mean we SHOULD. Even the store managers are tired of it which is why we had a meeting where they got told it's not our job. Pissed them off.

I'm not gonna be a store manager. Just someone who manages the guys and what they do. Basically make sure they aren't fucking off 90% of the day.

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submitted 11 months ago by SmokingFurry@xalla.day to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

Let me start by saying I'm a "floor guy" at a small town hardware store. I am in training to be a manager but not one yet. I do a bunch of stuff around the store. Which leaves me busy a lot of the time.

We have a paint department that LOVES calling me and the other floor guys to do dumb things that is their job. Now, I don't mind helping here or there. However when I get called away from doing something to come pick up your empty boxes to bring them to the box crusher when you're supposed to, or to bring a box up to the register for a customer that weighs 10lbs.

I just get furious since they've been told not to do this. However they don't stop. I recently told them I'm not moving a box for them since they weren't busy. They were just playing on their phone while waiting on me.

They complained and the manager told them it's their job. Now I have multiple people mad at me because I tell them NO. When it's not my job unless they are too busy.

Am I the asshole?

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