[-] Speckle@lemmy.world 31 points 1 year ago

Not OP but here you go. I work with young people and have had suicide prevention training multiple times, this is a recurring mantra that not asking about it is much worse than asking.

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[-] Speckle@lemmy.world 15 points 1 year ago

The current status is that he's really active on lemmy still and will sometimes pop in on these type of posts and answer your questions.

He did do a follow up about how to take a poop when you haven't for three days lol. So he clearly had trouble getting started again but I think he's well now.

[-] Speckle@lemmy.world 18 points 1 year ago

Thank you! I didn't think of that, changed it now.

[-] Speckle@lemmy.world 15 points 1 year ago

As the instance rules? So if anyone posts an advertising post the account is banned? Or each person blocking and moving on?

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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by Speckle@lemmy.world to c/asklemmy@lemmy.world

This is the second advertising post I've seen on lemmy and they were both today. I'm wondering how other people feel about it or if they've even seen posts like this?

Personally I'm livid and hate seeing it here. One of the things that attracts me to lemmy is the donation based, volunteer run, distributed, open access nature of it. I don't want it to become profit driven and I really don't want to see companies in what I belive should be a purely social endeavour. I really think making it profit driven will ruin it, if that means it stays smaller then I'm okay with that.

Now I know I can block them and move on which is what I've done. I'm also pleased to say that both posts I saw were heavily downvoted and I did my part too.

I'm curious if other people agree with me and don't want advertising like this on lemmy? Also, what do people think we can actually do about it if we don't want it around? Petition instance admins to ban advertising accounts? Then how do we define one? Can anything actually be done or do I just have to block and move on from a possibly ever increasing flow of advertising until I get bored and move on?

Sorry for the long rambling post and thanks if you read this far.

[-] Speckle@lemmy.world 61 points 1 year ago

Thank you as always, I really appreciate the breakdowns and transparency. Also thank you for reminding users that you're all volunteers and actual people running this, I've seen a lot of awful entitlement recently and some really unpleasant posts

[-] Speckle@lemmy.world 14 points 1 year ago

Yeah I had the same thing with liftoff this morning. Clearing my cache and data then signing back in fixed it for me

[-] Speckle@lemmy.world 33 points 1 year ago

As a millennial this made me laugh far to much.

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I'm Sorry Master Luke (files.catbox.moe)
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Has anyone else read this? (www.queerlit.co.uk)
submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by Speckle@lemmy.world to c/gaybros@lemmy.world

I read this book years ago when it was the first edition. It really spoke to me about some feelings I thought were really personal but turned out to be fairly common.

I read it again years later and it was a good read again. It has some really useful lessons and ideas I think.

I'm really curious if anyone else has read it, particularly someone younger than 40, and what they thought about it. If you haven't read it I would recommend giving it a go if you can find it, I'm going to give it another read now it's popped into my head.

[-] Speckle@lemmy.world 68 points 1 year ago

Tell me more about your veiny melons.

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Me IRL (files.catbox.moe)
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[-] Speckle@lemmy.world 19 points 1 year ago

This is some fun malicious compliance! I love the touch of having an open discussion to make it clear they're following guidelines

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Funny title (files.catbox.moe)
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submitted 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago) by Speckle@lemmy.world to c/gaybros@lemmy.world

Not when did you come out, that's a whole different story, but when did you know you were a gay bro?

I've always been excited by other guys, I remember being very young (like 7/8) and getting a bit too into the wrestling. My parents turned it off ๐Ÿ˜ฉ

I was around 13 when someone said something about 'gay' and I learned it was a whole thing. It was like a light bulb moment and a bunch of things instantly made sense. And that was it, came out to some friends not long after and that was it.

How about you guys?

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All I see is beans (files.catbox.moe)

An oil painting of a man staring out on piles and piles of beans

[-] Speckle@lemmy.world 14 points 1 year ago

I believe he did manage it, he was back on after the three days looking for tips on how to solve being constipated. What a champ.

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Lemmy With a Pearl Earring (files.catbox.moe)
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[-] Speckle@lemmy.world 15 points 1 year ago

Absolutely! I'm posting multiple times a day some days and commenting a lot more. It feels a bit more like you get noticed but also doesn't feel like you're going to get your head bitten off just for speaking. And you can use emojis here ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿ‘‹

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God of the City (files.catbox.moe)

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Forest God (files.catbox.moe)

And another image that looked kind of nice

A deer headed man with antlers wearing pseudo traditional Japanese clothing walking away through a cherry blossom forest

I'm enjoying animal headed people and animals doing unusual things like going to work at the moment.

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Lost in the fediverse (files.catbox.moe)
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