A few weeks ago, I posted here asking for help to leave Japan under threat that my son would be further abused and that I would be deported or worse. Thanks to a number of you, we got out and we made it to Ireland. I cannot thank all of you enough for your shocking generosity and the promptness of it which let us relocate just in the nick of time. It will never be forgotten.
Right now, we are doing fine. Could be better, but we have shelter and food and the promise that we will be taken care of. The biggest issue now is that due to the influx of refugees in Ireland, it's going to take a long time before we start getting financial aid. I am also waiting for our registration to be completed so I can do things like get a bank account and start looking for work.
We are being fed and given basic toiletries, but there some food & personal items that we have to provide ourselves. And I am flat broke now. Most importantly, we both need warmer clothes (jackets, pants, gloves, hats) and we need more clothes in general. We're wearing the warmest things we owned at the time, and that's enough right now. But Kanto winters don't hold a candle to Ireland. If it gets any colder (or wetter) it won't be responsible to go outside with a three-year-old. And my son is growing out of some of his clothes, so I need to buy larger replacements. He also needs extra food and drinks for when he can't eat whatever is being served to us at this hotel (a surprising amount of spicy food that neither of us can stand). I try to keep a small supply of crackers and fruit for him when he gets cranky between meals, as well as water and juice.
To be clear - we're no longer in imminent danger, and we won't starve or become homeless (fingers crossed). This is for if anyone wants to help us prepare for winter and make things easier for my little guy. Nothing like the amounts I was asking for before, small donations will make a difference. We would greatly appreciate it.
Stupidly, the only way I can receive money at this moment is MoneyGram, even Western Union will not work given the current situation. I realize that really narrows down the number of people who could realistically help, but I have no working bank accounts or electronic services until our registration process is completed. And that could take weeks, it's impossible for anyone to say.
If you have access to a MoneyGram, and want to prevent me from being yelled at because we're out of bananas, PM me and I will give you the necessary information.
Once we are enrolled in financial aid, I will take this post down. Any questions, just ask here or message me. Thank you for your time.


Remember when Gowron said if he took office he would be Kayless for a day?