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joined 1 year ago
 

Spoiler alert: No we can't.

I've been purging all my transphobic friends on Steam for this reason, they are cruel and evil people.

 

Spoiler alert: No we can't.

I've been purging all my transphobic friends on Steam for this reason, they are cruel and evil people.

[–] dipshit@lemm.ee 1 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

Fuck you, I'm not waiting longer than I need to. I'm doing DIY if my therapist doesn't write me the letter, I'm not finding another one and wasting more months talking about worthless feelings just so they can maybe write me a letter when I could've started DIY and began the journey already.

[–] dipshit@lemm.ee 1 points 3 days ago (1 children)

I've seen people talk shit and try and argue that detransition rates are higher than they really are. They've used that to justify long wait times for HRT and transitioning. I just didn't want people to give me the speech about how the wait is to make me sure so I don't regret it and detransition. I know that won't happen because I desperately want the changes, my flat chest gives me immense dysphoria.

I have no idea why or if my therapist is gatekeeping me, it could just be that she hasn't written the letter yet, but I for one am not willing to wait more months for her to do so. The sooner I start the better.

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submitted 6 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago) by dipshit@lemm.ee to c/mtf@lemmy.blahaj.zone
 

I've been in therapy for a few months and I really want to start HRT soon but I don't know if my therapist will write me the required letter. If she doesn't by the end of this month I'm going to start doing DIY, is there anything I should know about the process before I get started, anything I should be aware of? Are there risks or side effects. Things that I should be aware of before going in

P.S. Don't give me any of that crap about detransitioning, you don't know me well enough to say I would, frankly I'll never call myself a boy again, not of my own volition or to capitulate to others.

Edit: Thank you all so much for the information and resources, sorry if I wasn't able to respond to people's comments sooner, things have been hard and I've been busy lately.

[–] dipshit@lemm.ee 4 points 6 days ago

I was never able to get a girlfriend, so I decided to become the girlfriend (I still really wish I had a girlfriend ☹️).

[–] dipshit@lemm.ee 5 points 6 days ago (1 children)

Superglue is way worse than wheatpaste, if wheatpaste is hard to remove, superglue is impossible without causing extensive surface damage, especially on plastic surfaces.

[–] dipshit@lemm.ee 3 points 6 days ago

Get a superglue bottle with a brush and coat the surface in that before putting the sticker on it. It'll make it a pain to remove and basically impossible without surface damage.

[–] dipshit@lemm.ee 5 points 6 days ago

In the bathrooms of any red state or republican-leaning town.

[–] dipshit@lemm.ee 5 points 1 week ago

Hell yeah 😎🏳️‍⚧️💪

[–] dipshit@lemm.ee 5 points 1 week ago (1 children)

Me too, I've been growing mine out, I plan to wear it in a ponytail like my Picrew avatar

Yes I do also plan on dying it red on the ends, just like my Picrew.

 

(I've always wanted to be a tomboy)

 

(I've always wanted to be a tomboy)

[–] dipshit@lemm.ee 9 points 1 week ago (2 children)

Yes, that one.

Context: I had an interaction earlier on Egg_irl where someone asked if the "Futa girl" in my post could give them a hug.

 

Do you think it's purely hateful or do you think it has some merit in certain contexts?

Personally I think it is a transphobic and dehumanizing term that objectifies and sexualizes trans women based on our anatomy, that should never be used in any context, but I'd love to hear what other people think.

[–] dipshit@lemm.ee 2 points 1 week ago

Laz maybe? I don't know maybe that sounds too much like lass.

[–] dipshit@lemm.ee 26 points 2 weeks ago

She's trans, please don't use the term futa, it's extremely objectifying and also transphobic.

 
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furry_irl (i.imgur.com)
submitted 2 weeks ago* (last edited 2 weeks ago) by dipshit@lemm.ee to c/furry_irl@pawb.social
 

Art by VeEight on FurAffinity

 
 

Technically I asked my friend to call me by feminine terms to try it out, but the result is the same. Egg cracked, found out I'm a trans girl.

 
 

I feel like I am, I am admittedly spending New years alone, but considering what happened on Christmas probably would be best not to spend it with my family. I plan to watch the countdown on TV maybe have a Beer or two, nothing fancy.

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