[-] midimalist@lemdro.id 2 points 2 weeks ago

Sorry for the late answer and the text wall

  1. Depends on the severity and how much they know about my avoidance habit. I would say sorry (as genuine as I can) and told them about my problem (or most likely make up a believable one that neurotypical person can accept) that made me unable to respond to them in timely manner. That it is wholly a Me problem and not a You problem. I would try my best to complete what they ask of me or help them with something else just to keep it even. This vulnerability talk will exhaust your mental energy tbh, some people will definitely have negative reaction and rightfully so, especially in professional setting. Tho some bridges have been burnt so bad I don't even try ๐Ÿซ  Still, it's very much worth it, rather than spiralling down to depression town, sinking in the guilty mud trap.
  2. I too wish I have an answer for this one. If you have the means, try finding out the reason. Maybe it's ADHD, maybe it's AvPD, maybe it's both, neither, or something else. So far, applying CBT (Cognitive Behavioral Therapy) has helped me improve, but it's not a bulletproof solution. My avoidance mostly comes from my tendency to be a perfectionist (which comes from past experience, upbringing, yadda yadda), so I try to accept that sometimes it is okay to be flawed, to disappoint, to not try my best for someone else's sake just to get their approval. Try to have healthy habits that improve mood/health. I also try not to spend too much time inside all day without actual human interaction, because I can definitely get more anxious when I haven't interact with real people (actual interaction face-to-face, not text/chat with people online) to keep me grounded.

Just keep on keeping on one step at a time.

[-] midimalist@lemdro.id 0 points 3 weeks ago

Dude, I would be ecstatic if my hypothetical date said they listen to marching band music. Please recommend me some.

[-] midimalist@lemdro.id 2 points 2 months ago

I always upvote unexpected Homestuck. ๐Ÿ‘

Also agree it is a banger.

[-] midimalist@lemdro.id 1 points 2 months ago

Thanks and done! ๐Ÿ‘

[-] midimalist@lemdro.id 1 points 2 months ago

Hi CatZoomies, I made a comment on the giveaways few days ago, is it possible to edit my comment to change the game? I just saw there are more games from a very kind anon and they include some indies from my wishlist ๐Ÿ‘€

If it's not, then that's okay!

[-] midimalist@lemdro.id 2 points 3 months ago

Just want to report that I don't have this problem with my lemdro.id account using Voyager app. Not sure why.

Iirc someone said it's because of the different version?

[-] midimalist@lemdro.id 1 points 4 months ago

I'm still waiting until I forget more about the game so I can play it again.

[-] midimalist@lemdro.id 1 points 5 months ago

Will check it out soon, thanks. I've also heard of of Nextcloud but I just haven't had the chance to try it yet.

[-] midimalist@lemdro.id 1 points 5 months ago

Hey, I'm also in the process of finding an alternative for Microsoft to-do. I did some quick research for some replacement and tasks.org looks really promising if not for the lack of desktop version.

[-] midimalist@lemdro.id 1 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

I simplified my explanation which I agree make it less accurate, wrong even, but you can read the report yourself and possibly help others by explaining it correctly. I am not part of LGBTQ+ so my understanding might not be up to par.

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