[-] somnuz@lemm.ee 8 points 2 months ago

With a crew like that and this whole support system, Zac probably saved the world twice before even getting to the bus.

[-] somnuz@lemm.ee 9 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago)

This sounds like you are somehow trying to take the full responsibility for the circumstances you were forced into. It is impossible to blame one person for all the things that are not working, looking and being “as they should”. The same goes for “we all failed”. It is much more nuanced than that.

The reverse perspective is more productive, every action and even smallest nudge into the right direction counts towards much bigger pile.. of dust.. on the endless desert.. Yet still, this is how mesmerizing dunes are formed. It’s not about the amount of grains, how long it took, it’s about all the persisting processes.

[-] somnuz@lemm.ee 9 points 4 months ago

Now try fastfetch..

[-] somnuz@lemm.ee 9 points 5 months ago

For me the amazing part was somehow pacing. Every single time I felt like I am starting to cruise through levels, I was knocked down really hard.. and my brain exploded more than a few times.

Stunningly, this created one of the best mechanics for me — “if it was too easy, you probably missed a valuable lesson there”.

[-] somnuz@lemm.ee 8 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

So..

  1. You want to learn new things and now you are getting discouraged.

Why you wanted to learn new things? Was it adventure calling, random idea, someone gave you some advice/ideas or you were great in your imagination at them before even starting? Whatever it was, learning new things can be equally great and hard.

  1. You seem to be failing at new things.

This is how learning works. Some people fail more and harder, or need more explanations, or more trial and error until the “thing” clicks in their head.

Did I miss anything? There is not enough information but let me shoot in the dark:

  • The thing with diving or climbing, was it a one and done thing or do you continue doing it anyhow?

Why I am asking? There is quite a big difference in “I want to learn new things”, “I want to try/test new things”, “I am bored and just wanna do something” and “I am seeking for a (new) lifelong passion/hobby” or even harder “I want to get really good at X”.. Depending on what your actual need is, there is plenty of possibilities why the process and effects are not satisfying for you.

  • What does “looked bad” mean? Was it a comment from your instructor, or someone from the group gave you a weird look or laughed? Or you had it recorded and you compared your technique to others?

Sounds a little like some form of stage-fright, you can process the instructions and get what the instructor is saying but the problem begins during the “performance” part? Following the instructions and so on? This is quite common, especially during group classes with random people you don’t know. They can be quite chaotic and overstimulating.. There is not much you can do to avoid it, but there is a lot you can do to work through it.

  • Part about “no pressure”

Maybe a form of group classes is too much and just not for you at the beginning — maybe one on one approach would suit your needs better?

There are so many angles to approach this subject..

[-] somnuz@lemm.ee 8 points 5 months ago* (last edited 5 months ago)

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[-] somnuz@lemm.ee 9 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

Hmmm.. Mostly a full bottle of water, rest of the space is for my phone and glasses when I go to sleep, in the morning the same space can be reused for a mug full of coffee.

[-] somnuz@lemm.ee 9 points 6 months ago* (last edited 6 months ago)

And here, right in the middle of the wild internet jungle vastness, we can observe a very interesting, quite uncommon specimen. They are prepared well enough for interactions and don’t seek a vent point for illusory vengeances or endless technicalities on every possible occasion; their skillful bag of tricks contains open mindedness and respectful responses. They can commit their precious energy to this hard process of making the day of the entire herd easier and more positive. Look at them go!

[-] somnuz@lemm.ee 8 points 7 months ago* (last edited 7 months ago)
  1. Cool idea for a book or a movie
  2. Club 27 resolution
  3. Unreleased X-Files episode
  4. Stillbirth and early neonatal deaths theoretical explanation
[-] somnuz@lemm.ee 9 points 11 months ago

Yeah, major bullet dodged there. Just when I started actually appreciating Figma and heard about the Adobe plans, I automatically felt like I just need to hate Figma to not get used to it too much — just in case.

Affinity is great and gets better, Figma stays great and gets better, for now at least, all fine with me. No Adobe logo anywhere in sight — good news for me.

[-] somnuz@lemm.ee 7 points 1 year ago* (last edited 1 year ago)

Obviously, I know absolutely nothing about you, and if your standards are some over the top expectations or demands then you should stop calling them standards.. BUT if your standards are healthy boundaries and some basic safety precautions then by any means try not to mess with them even when the situation is rough — this can burn for a looong time..

[-] somnuz@lemm.ee 9 points 1 year ago

That was my exact reaction when I found out how this amazing IP was taken away from the original creators.. Pain, sadness.. Only shivers helped me a tiny bit.

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