“The writings of young trans men reveal a group of notably sensitive and clever people.
“The more of their accounts of gender dysphoria I’ve read, with their insightful descriptions of anxiety, dissociation, eating disorders, self-harm and self-hatred, the more I’ve wondered whether, if I’d been born 30 years later, I too might have tried to transition.
“The allure of escaping womanhood would have been huge. I struggled with severe OCD as a teenager.
“If I’d found community and sympathy online that I couldn’t find in my immediate environment, I believe I could have been persuaded to turn myself into the son my father had openly said he’d have preferred.”
“As I didn’t have a realistic possibility of becoming a man back in the 1980s, it had to be books and music that got me through both my mental health issues and the sexualised scrutiny and judgement that sets so many girls to war against their bodies in their teens.
“Fortunately for me, I found my own sense of otherness, and my ambivalence about being a woman, reflected in the work of female writers and musicians who reassured me that, in spite of everything a sexist world tries to throw at the female-bodied, it’s fine not to feel pink, frilly and compliant inside your own head; it’s OK to feel confused, dark, both sexual and non-sexual, unsure of what or who you are.”
It would be in very poor taste for me to voice any speculation on another person's gender identity.
It's also worth pointing out that traditional femininity is treated with disrespect throughout the Harry Potter series. All the "good" female characters subvert it in some way, by being smart or ugly, because Joanne doesn't seem to have matured past 90's-era film tropes.
Why is her main character a boy in a genre already saturated with boys and begging for female leads? Why did she deliberately obscure the fact that she's a woman by abbreviating her name? Why does she write under a male pseudonym? It all sounds so feminist and progressive, doesn't it?
Le Guin had the grace to be embarrassed that she hadn't even considered a female wizard, and she went on to write fantastic novels about that exact topic. Writing that also made me realize that girls literally cannot be wizards in Harry Potter canon, lol. It's like she read Equal Rites but only paid attention to the problematic parts.
I think y'all who are upset over the use of "freeware" are out of touch with how language is used in non-expert settings. Like, I'm definitely more tech-savvy than most people and I still didn't know about "FOSS" as a term until seeing it on Lemmy and looking it up. This just means "free software" to me and doesn't imply anything negative.
It even says, "the premier free and open source image editing software for multiple platforms" right in the first paragraph, so what's the issue? Do you think the headline will mislead someone into thinking that GIMP is proprietary?