[-] toynbee@lemmy.world 1 points 16 hours ago

Then why do they have those mufflers that stick above the car?

[-] toynbee@lemmy.world 2 points 16 hours ago
[-] toynbee@lemmy.world 1 points 20 hours ago* (last edited 14 hours ago)

Thank you for the information.

edit: I played this for my similarly aged wife and she said "is that from an ad?" but couldn't identify which one.

[-] toynbee@lemmy.world 1 points 22 hours ago

I was born on the eighties and remember the nineties. The music sounds vaguely familiar but, even after the one minute mark, I have no association for it.

[-] toynbee@lemmy.world 5 points 22 hours ago* (last edited 22 hours ago)

I sleep better with lights, noise and distractions than without; without gives my brain time to think about things like elections, exactly how much time I have left to sleep before I have to get up for work, what troubles I'll face at work the next day, etc. I slept so much better during the days than I do during night.

edit: For some reason my client decided to post this as I was in the middle of typing a sentence. Edited to actually finish the post.

[-] toynbee@lemmy.world 5 points 22 hours ago

I nearly literally started a friendship based on showing the other person this movie. It's a fantastic movie and apparently why Christian Bale was chosen as Batman.

[-] toynbee@lemmy.world 1 points 2 days ago

I think it's a The Office reference.

[-] toynbee@lemmy.world 4 points 2 days ago

I usually just talk about something very unlikely to sound predatory or sexual. "I like your hair," things like that. Hair is one I bring up frequently also because one can usually tell whether a lot of effort was made; as I mentioned, I think complimenting something that involved effort is more impactful than just random, possibly meaningless things about the person.

For example, I don't usually say anything about clothes (on men or women) unless there's something particularly striking about them; recently I saw a woman wearing a shirt expressing a political opinion that is not popular in this area (but with which I agreed) and complimented her on it because it seemed like it probably took courage to wear. However, I wouldn't comment on someone wearing a plain white tee.

I have learned that I don't necessarily always enunciate properly and therefore should say "I like your shoes" rather than "I like your boots."

[-] toynbee@lemmy.world 9 points 2 days ago

I like this and similar gifs.

[-] toynbee@lemmy.world 15 points 3 days ago

I won't have hope until victory is officially determined.

Pessimists only get happy surprises.

[-] toynbee@lemmy.world 26 points 3 days ago* (last edited 3 days ago)

I try to improve the days of strangers by offering compliments that (hopefully) clearly have no ulterior motive. The two easiest ways I've found to do this are a. Offer the compliment in passing so that it is obvious I'm not asking for anything as a follow-up because I've already walked away and b. Compliment things that took time, effort or courage (like an elaborate hairstyle or colorful makeup).

Metaphorically speaking as a man with a beard, I appreciate men with beards because the man in question is often very pleased with his beard and, in most cases, took time to develop it. Therefore, it's nearly universally a safe thing to compliment. I've never once complimented a beard and not gotten a grin and at least brief conversation as a result. Sometimes I'll even get a brotherly slap on the back.

Maybe OP got a lot of - or even a few - compliments on his beard, regardless of the state of his jaw, and it boosted his ego.

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Before last night I didn't even know my sister still painted. It's great that she does.

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Nothing in my life has prepared me to answer that question, let alone to a 5-year-old.

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They had an idea and they went with it.

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Them: Knock knock!

Me: Who's there?

Them: Unicorn.

Me: Unicorn who?

Them: Unicorn. Unicorn. Stop saying unicorn.

edit: Line breaks.

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Sorry if not.

I was on Reddit for a lot of years and enjoyed most of them, I really did. Almost all of that was through the Reddit is Fun app, it was one of the few apps I liked enough to pay for it.

I stopped opening RiF the day the API incident happened and I switched to here (using Connect, after some experimentation, because the UX was most similar to RiF). I wasn't confident we would gain enough users to make it worthwhile to switch, but I wanted to try and I didn't want to support spez. Just this morning I told my wife that we probably had several thousand users, then a few hours later I saw a post saying we had almost 1.5 million. That's amazing!

I struggled a bit with Lemmy when I started using it, but either Lemmy or I evolved - probably both - and now it's a wonderful experience to open every day. Y'all are great and I appreciate your presence.

edit: Probably should have said it in the original message, but in case it wasn't explicit: thank you all.

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