I've done that here. Thanks!
I have no modding experience, but it seems the mod for !swingers@lemmynsfw.com is missing. I wouldn't mind trying to get that sub more lively.
We do this regularly. It's fun. It's great to see and hear your lover enjoy herself with someone else. It's quite beautiful and intense to be intimate with a new person. Different people do things differently, and the variety can teach you new things as well as just be exciting.
I'd say that going to clubs is active.
We usually go to a party or club once a month, maybe every other month. We've had some health problems over the last two years, which has meant fewer nights out, making it only three times this year, so far.
Sometimes when we go to clubs, we only play together, sometimes we make a nice connection. At house parties, there's usually more activity, and we find play partners most every time.