Thank you!
When I made my account many years ago I got some messages from old dudes that wanted to get to know me, which put me off using fetlife for many years. I've only recently started using it again now that I am more mature and I know how to set boundaries. Since I've used it so little, I don't know if I can give advice about it.
You could make an account and see if it is something for you.
I got them from a webshop in my country, because I couldn't be bothered to wait a long time to get them custom made. It's risky though because you won't know the quality if you don't buy from a reputable seller.
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