[-] xilliah@beehaw.org 1 points 2 hours ago
[-] xilliah@beehaw.org 1 points 5 hours ago* (last edited 5 hours ago)

The first step is networking through secure communication, especially at this early stage where we simply can't predict what is or isn't going to happen. Don't underestimate the importance and value of communication.

[-] xilliah@beehaw.org 7 points 17 hours ago

Helping others when you need help, because eventually it'll become so easy that you can even help yourself.

[-] xilliah@beehaw.org 2 points 22 hours ago

Did you arrive yet? How is it?

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[-] xilliah@beehaw.org 2 points 1 day ago

Neverending obsession people have with sex. Yes, I get it, it's fun, and adventurous, and all those other amazing things. Can I just enjoy the rest of my life now?

[-] xilliah@beehaw.org 4 points 1 day ago

Could you elaborate a bit? A book is too much for me.

[-] xilliah@beehaw.org 26 points 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago)

Just cycled past this town hall in Belgium. Also lots of churches here hang the flag, including the progressive trans one. In other countries too. In the smallest towns to the biggest cities.

I know that it might seem a bit mean of me to dangle this in front of you, but I just mean to say that there's a way forward and hope.

[-] xilliah@beehaw.org 11 points 2 days ago* (last edited 2 days ago)

To join the matrix trans housing network please message me directly here. It's invite only.

Chin up! ๐Ÿฌ

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๐Ÿค—

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It's good for all of us to be privacy literate, given that things can take a turn for the worse in many places, or already are bad. There was a post a few days ago that highlighted how the vast majority of trans people rely on internet access ๐Ÿค”

I'll start by saying that matrix seems to be a solid solution for communication, and tor for accessing information. It's worth it to get familiar with them before you need them yourself, but also to understand them as a community so we can support each other globally ๐Ÿณ๏ธโ€โšง๏ธ

I am also wondering if any of you are familiar with getting around network restrictions. For example a DIY mesh network? ๐Ÿ“ก

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Don't give up. Eat your breakfast. Be ready to open the door. Sometimes I just can't take it anymore. A shoe lace here, a shoe lace there, all tangled up and poor.

I ruminate in the deepest point of darkness. In the eye of the singularity and at the heart of warmth. Thuds of fire strike upon the distant shore.

I pull and I pull, but I cannot free my neck. And my face runs pale, and my experience runs thin. I gasp for air, and I let it in.

An oasis in my breath. The orange of orange juice. And I, and I can be found in the blue sky, by the grace one cannot lose.

When last night I lay in pain, I snapped this just for you, as the moon came.

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Hey lovelies, open question: Are any of you into self defense and do you want to share something with the rest of us?

โค๏ธโš”๏ธโค๏ธ

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I was at this fry shop today and the owner was teaching his new minions how to make what I had ordered. He said sir in the background. Well, I'm used to it, so whatever, I plopped my butt down and waited for that golden finger lickin' goodness.

Eventually the guy awkwardly comes to the front through a door. Acts out of place. Says something nice to this person and that person, dunno what he was up to at first so I just did my thing.

At some point he works up the courage and walks up to me and makes some small talk. Then he asked me my pronouns, so I'm like she/her. He apologized that he misgendered me before and called me adorable! ๐Ÿ˜ญ

Now, just yesterday someone called me a trannie before riding off on his bicycle, but that's a story for another time. Safe to say I'm a fair Claire โญ

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I mean, whenever I hear an alarm I ignore it, because I just hear it so often. But what if instead we used these types of alarms for real emergencies? For example a personal alarm to protect yourself.

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