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[–] yenahmik@lemmy.world 3 points 3 days ago (1 children)

In today's milestones, Fidelity's retirement planning tool now projects I will run out of money at the age of 94 in a significantly down market if I retire in 3 years.

It's getting close to the end game, guys!

[–] yenahmik@lemmy.world 2 points 1 week ago

Just finished booking accomodations for my vacation in August! It's my first trip to South America and it's currently looking like it's going to be the cheapest trip I've taken on a per day basis, and possibly overall. I'm super excited and a little nervous about this trip!

[–] yenahmik@lemmy.world 3 points 2 weeks ago

Lol, I actually hit it Friday morning. Then it dropped Friday, but I hit it again after close on Monday! Of course based on today's market, I'll drop below it again... 🤷‍♂️

[–] yenahmik@lemmy.world 5 points 3 weeks ago (3 children)

Sooo close to an $X00,000 milestone invested! Come on markets...do your thing!

Hopefully with my paycheck contribution and if the market keeps creeping up, I might be able to hit it by the end of this week.

Having said that, I apologize for the massive dump the market is about to take to prevent me hitting this milestone as hoped.

[–] yenahmik@lemmy.world 1 points 3 weeks ago

Not fucked so long as you are making efforts towards reaching your goals. I can't imagine how different my life at 45 will look compared to my current life at 35.

[–] yenahmik@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago (2 children)

Wow, I'm super grossed out by an email I woke up to in my inbox. Peg this as reason #1879 for pursuing FIRE.

Recently, a senior level leader in my company (one step below C suite) was let go by the new C level leader. They sent out a digital card to sign saying thanks/farewell. However, they also made sure to specify they enabled a donation option to gift the recipient money. That just feels wildly inappropriate! This person was almost certainly earning at least several multiples of the average salary of the staff.

Am I crazy for being so disgusted by this?

[–] yenahmik@lemmy.world 3 points 1 month ago (3 children)

Sounds like my first nibling will be born today or tomorrow (sister is being induced today)! Anyone ever deposit a gift to a 529 for someone who isn't their child? Curious if it's better to start one myself with them as the beneficiary or ask the parents for their account (assuming they set one up)?

[–] yenahmik@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago

Got a check in the mail for a payout for a class action lawsuit. The email for it felt pretty scammy when I signed up, but the $40 is now sitting in my account. This is the first time I was a part of a class action.

I'm gonna sit on that check for a few weeks, because I'm still sceptical of its validity.

[–] yenahmik@lemmy.world 4 points 2 months ago (3 children)

It's both my birthday and spreadsheet day!

It's pretty crazy to think about how far I've come, since it was exactly 10 years ago I started making major moves for FIRE. Back then I was stuck in a dead-end job, had a bad relationship, and was living in my parents basement. I decided around that birthday I was going to go back to school and get a masters degree to jumpstart a career change.

That choice led me to my current job that I've been at for roughly 9 years, am happily married to someone who respects me, have my own house and dog, have been able to travel to multiple countries, and have increased my net worth by roughly $750k.

For anyone in their mid-20s who thinks getting ahead in life is impossible and is feeling hopeless. I am living proof that it's not. A decade can change absolutely everything so long as you can work up the courage to jump out of a bad situation.

[–] yenahmik@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago

Experienced quite the culture shock this weekend while visiting a southern state for the first time. Apparently free water isn't a guarantee in restaurants everywhere. We went to dinner at a fast food style restaurant and if I wanted water I would've had to buy a bottle from them. I went without any drinks, but I now understand why some people in the south only drink soda (if you have to pay either way may as well get the one that comes with refills).

[–] yenahmik@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago

In a hopefully fortuitous turn of events, my paycheck is coming a day early this week because much of the world gets Friday off for Easter. That means my buy order is executing today instead of tomorrow. I may be lucky enough to time the dip!

...or it will keep falling and I'll wish I'd bought on the usual day. But I'm headed out of town for the rest of the week so I won't have to think about it until next week!

[–] yenahmik@lemmy.world 3 points 2 months ago

Good God, this takes me back to middle school when we were obsessed with this song/chant/animation (what even was it?)

 
 
 

It's an unprecedented – and massive – experiment: Since 2017 the U.S.-based charity GiveDirectly has been providing thousands of villagers in Kenya what's called a "universal basic income" – a cash grant of about $50, delivered every month, with the commitment to keep the payments coming for 12 years. It is a crucial test of what many consider one of the most cutting-edge ideas for alleviating global poverty. This week a team of independent researchers who have been studying the impact released their first results.

 

I've always been a fencesitter when it comes to having kids. I'm getting to a point where I think I'd like to have a kid. I don't know if it's because I really want one, or there's just nothing major left on the list of life accomplishments and it's a societal expectation.

The thing is, I can think of a million and one reasons not to have one and can't put into words why I would want one. However, I'm starting to have a nagging feeling that I want to start trying. I just don't know if that feeling is something I actually want, or just society telling me I should.

It doesn't help that I don't have a lot of small children I regularly interact with, so I honestly don't have a clue what life would look like after kids, beyond it being a lot of stress and hard work. It also doesn't help my spouse says it's my choice and they'll go along with whatever I want .

Any advice or things that helped you know it was the right choice/time for you to expand your family?

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I got my father-in-law for the family secret Santa this year. He's super into Marvel/comics and I was thinking of getting him a marvel/superhero themed board game he can play with the family. Google returned a bunch of different options for Marvel themed games, but I can't tell which are good or bad.

What games would you recommend for gifting?

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