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Guys, what's a toxic trait other guys sometimes have (lemmy.world)

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[-] mke@lemmy.world 2 points 2 months ago

I've seen this, and what bothers me most is when you get that nasty feeling they're not looking for a therapist, but validation. Yeah, your ex-wife sucked, man. She was totally in the wrong about everything always, sorry you had to deal with her for so long. I'm sure you're in the clear and there's nothing you could be blamed for, it's easy to tell from this one-sided retelling of your personal conflicts.

When anyone's first topic of choice for casual conversation is how much their last partner was in the wrong, it's... difficult not to be dubious.

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