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Couple more optional questions

  • Did the decision bring any change to your life ?
  • Do you feel the decision stopped you from expressing something at some point ?
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[-] setsneedtofeed@lemmy.world 73 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I have made a conscious effort to reduce swearing, which has brought my swearing down to near zero, both online and in real life conversation.

I have found that it streamlines the ability to make a point. A lot of swearing is simply thrown in out of habit, and if you remove it, all you do is make your point more clear without losing anything of substance.

I think for many people swearing is a "filler word" in the same way that "umm" can be. I have also worked hard to reduce my other filler word use. My goal with both of these is better articulation.

The next effect is that swearing is normally viewed as an extreme use of language for an extreme situation, and when you don't constantly swear the times that you do actually conveys how notable the situation is.

[-] SatansMaggotyCumFart@lemmy.world 41 points 1 month ago
[-] setsneedtofeed@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago
[-] SatansMaggotyCumFart@lemmy.world -1 points 1 month ago

What word in that comment is a filler word?

[-] setsneedtofeed@lemmy.world 9 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

I don't recall saying every use of a swear is a filler word.

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