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[-] iheartneopets@lemm.ee 25 points 1 month ago

The undercurrent of misogyny is so so rampant on Lemmy, worse even than reddit was. Posts like this bring it right out. I can't believe how many upvotes some of these red-pill-ass comments have. It's really discouraging to see and often makes me too nervous to speak up on women's issues here on Lemmy, lest I be absolutely brigaded.

At least the bear can't use a keyboard and thus wouldn't be able to try and bully me into shutting up on the internet, so there's another instance where I'd choose a bear over a random man.

[-] drunkpostdisaster@lemmy.world 24 points 1 month ago

Half the comments here are shitting on men.

[-] Schadrach@lemmy.sdf.org 1 points 1 month ago

The difference is that shitting on men is acceptable. At worst it's venting a bit. And collectively attacking men is fine.

Not like saying something negative about a woman, in which case you have to be very absolutely clear that you are only talking about that one woman in that one scenario and that it is in no way representative of any other scenario or woman, and even then you'll be accused of misogyny.

But then this notion that it's OK to talk shit about men but women are either positive or victims at worst shows in a lot of feminist lingo.

For example, what do you call it when a company markets a version of a product specifically to women and charges a higher price in doing so and women buy it? The pink tax. What do you call it when a company markets a version of a product specifically to men and charges a higher price in doing so and men buy it? Male fragility.

[-] iheartneopets@lemm.ee -1 points 1 month ago

Goodness gracious, it's almost like you're commenting on the thread almost a day later and maybe the comments are a bit different now, as opposed to earlier.

[-] drunkpostdisaster@lemmy.world -1 points 1 month ago

Just saying what I am saying not my fault posts take forever for anything new to come up to my feed.

[-] iheartneopets@lemm.ee 1 points 1 month ago

No, but deciding to comment is a choice you made, not something out of your control like something appearing in your feed.

[-] ShareMySims@sh.itjust.works 17 points 1 month ago

At least the bear can’t use a keyboard and thus wouldn’t be able to try and bully me into shutting up on the internet, so there’s another instance where I’d choose a bear over a random man.

Absolute mood.

[-] koncertejo@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago

Lemmy is a lot less women-friendly, queer-friendly, trans-friendly than the rest of the fediverse. That really needs to change.

[-] iheartneopets@lemm.ee 3 points 1 month ago

It's a lot like Reddit was back in the old days in that way :/

[-] koncertejo@lemmy.ml 3 points 1 month ago

Lemmy is a lot less women-friendly, queer-friendly, trans-friendly than the rest of the fediverse. That really needs to change.

[-] Ragnarok314159@sopuli.xyz 2 points 1 month ago

I agree there is sexism, but were you on Reddit for those first few years? This place is a Disney movie compared to how Reddit used to be.

[-] iheartneopets@lemm.ee 3 points 1 month ago

I actually mentioned that in a comment above. Reddit used to be just as bad, if not worse indeed, but that doesn't excuse Lemmy by any means. I do hope that it's a good indicator that Lemmy will get better with time, though.

[-] Kusimulkku@lemm.ee 0 points 1 month ago

The undercurrent of misogyny is so so rampant on Lemmy, worse even than reddit was

Surprised if true

this post was submitted on 16 Sep 2024
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