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I have a few.

One is abbreviation hell. Nobody is going to spend the time trying to decipher what you mean when you use over several abbreviations. It is just better if you'd explain than expecting people to understand aside from commonly used abbreviations that are easy to understand.

Another is overstepping your limits for the sake of getting a partner. Compromising your own standards is perhaps one of the worst things you can do when it comes to trying to find dates. Like you're suddenly okay with dating single parents but you don't like children. You're suddenly okay with dating religious people but you're not religious. Things like that. Because it means you're desperate and you're setting yourself up and setting them up for a bad date.

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[-] halykthered@lemmy.ml 20 points 1 day ago

It says a lot about the strange people you meet online that, had I never responded, no one but me would truly know if this offhand comment actually came from a deranged stalker or just some drunk and bored idiot looking to do some light trolling.

[-] cyborganism@lemmy.ca 2 points 3 hours ago

Ok! Phew! I've read some real incel shit on some comments and you made me believe your case was real.

[-] stinky@redlemmy.com 8 points 23 hours ago
[-] halykthered@lemmy.ml 16 points 23 hours ago

Why thank you, it took many edits to get it to the point where it was creepy but believable.

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