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this post was submitted on 16 Aug 2023
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Maybe read it again, in context, and decide if there are equal rights to initiate that particular interaction (no matter what the genders or sexualities involved are).
Then have a stern word with yourself about being so incredibly defensive that you end up portraying yourself as a sex pest.
I have no idea what you are trying to say.
Are you saying that two people, no matter the genders or sexualities, never have the same right to initiate undressing in front of each other? What?
Defensive? I'm neither a gay man nor a heterosexual woman. This doesn't affect me at all.
The contrast was between someone who chooses to undress in front of someone else, and someone who chooses to barge in in them in a state of undress.
Exactly. Think about it. Look deep inside yourself, find a glimmer of self-awareness, and work out what it is that drives you to post like this.