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Half an hour every day. That's video games or internet. Tv is more open but only in the evenings generally. That's a reduction from 2 hrs a day which was causing problems honestly. They've managed it well and are much more active again. They play with one another more and there is less fighting. They're 10 year old boy/girl twins and a 12 year old big sister.

That's not to say that there aren't complete Saturdays of movies or video games or extra time when it's been a smooth day. Some people think we're nuts but it works for our family and gets us all more active and involved with each other.