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What do you do when you get ghosted? (lemmy.ml)

submitted 1 day ago* (last edited 1 day ago) by wuphysics87@lemmy.ml to c/asklemmy@lemmy.ml

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In a romantic relationship or otherwise. I'm being ghosted over a job, so I ask randos on the internet about what they do. WBY?

Edit: Thanks everyone for the advice I've been trying to follow. It helps having it reinforced. It's just hard for several reasons any of which would make it my top choice.

It's in the city my sister lives in. I haven't lived near my family since I finished high school
My job is inherently transient; I move every 1-2 years. This one gave me some permanency
I've been doing the same thing for the last 10 years. This one gives me additional responsibilities
It's prestigious and would come with higher pay

I'll be working on it, but like I said it's tough. It's almost like the universe gave me the perfect go fuck yourself.

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[–] blade_barrier@lemmy.ml 10 points 1 day ago (1 children)

If some recruiter ghosted you, don't bother them and move on

[–] lemming934@lemmy.sdf.org 2 points 18 hours ago (1 children)

Why not bother them?

[–] some_guy@lemmy.sdf.org 3 points 15 hours ago (1 children)

Because you'll be wasting your time and energy.

[–] Darleys_Brew@lemmy.ml 1 points 1 hour ago

That’s a fair point actually. The recruitment industry is a shitty business.